Hooking Up: Five Tips Regarding Booty Calls

Booty calls are risky so you want to follow some guidelines. Several people have destroyed themselves in downhill battle due to booty calls. Some people fall in love with someone that he or she engages in booty calls with due to not being able to recognize it is just lust. Here are five tips regarding booty calls.

Don't Assume It Will Turn Into Love

One person doesn't see on the same page as you. Booty calls never end happily in a romance relationship despite how much you may love the person. Booty calls are basically two people using each other for personal sexual satisfaction only. There is nothing further than that going on.

The Individual Thinks You Are Nothing Special As A Booty Call

A booty call implies that you willingly let him or her take advantage of you for sexual satisfaction purposes only. He or she is seeking one thing and only one thing. Don't confuse lust with love. Don't confuse lust with friendship. Don't confuse lust with the thought that you can change his or her mind to want a real relationship with you. Booty calls are nothing more than sexual relations between a man and a woman. Two people that fulfill a need.

Don't Assume The Individual Will Leave Their Marriage For You

He or she may roll in the hay with you all they want, but don't be foolish enough to think that you can destroy the marriage. When you engage in a booty calls it does imply that you are not the type of person that he or she seeks out for marriage material. You are not their idea of the perfect future wife or husband so don't kid yourself. Any person will tell you that their marriage is on the rocks in order to justify a booty call so they don't feel guilt.

Use Protection No Matter What The Individual Tells You

Don't believe anyone that tells that they have had a vasectomy or tubes tied. Ask yourself these few questions. How do you know that they just don't like the feel of condoms? How do you know that he or she isn't trying to con you out of money for child support for years? How do you know that he isn't trying to get you pregnant to destroy your marriage? How do you know that he or she hasn't been having unprotected sex (like they want to have with you) with numerous people in the last few months? I don't care if he or she is a porn star in bed, no role in the hay is worth HIV, herpes, other STD, or a pregnancy.

Don't Advertise It

Don't go telling your friends about your discreet sexual relations. The last thing you want is your friend looking down on you or running to your or sexual partner's spouse. Many women feel that it is their duty as a woman to inform another woman that their spouse is being unfaithful. Men don't be so naive to think that one of your buddies won't tell your wife as well.