Hot Tips for Great Sex - Bring Back the Spice
1). Take your time. Foreplay is an important component when it comes to great sex. When you take your time to make it count rather than rushing through it, the process can be more special and passionate. Foreplay involves sensual kissing, massaging, touching, and some other more explicit things of course.
2). Tell your partner what you want. How do you like it done? If you like things a certain way, then tell your partner. They are not going to know what turns you on unless you speak up.
3). Try new things. If you're bored with your sex life you can spice it up a bit by trying new things. You can even try having sex in different rooms, using toys, or role playing with sexy outfits. You can even try different positions.
4). Don't become obsessive about reaching orgasm. When you put too much pressure on yourself or your partner to reach orgasm quickly you can ruin the moment. Just let things flow naturally, and there is nothing wrong with you if you don't reach orgasm every single time. Great sex is not all about the orgasm, great sex is also about the intimacy, the closeness, and the bond between two people. Even if you don't reach orgasm I'm sure it still felt good regardless.
5). Have fun! Don't make sex a chore. Have fun and enjoy this time together. This is special intimate time just between the two of you and relish in every moment. Enjoy the soft feel of your partners skin. Really look into your spouses eyes and tell them that you truly love them.
6). Talk dirty on the phone. This can help to get your partner excited especially if he's on his way home. He can be hot and ready by the time he walks in the door.
Sources:
http://www.naplesnews.com/news/2007/mar/11/god_wants_you_have_great_sex/?neapolitan
Published by Sarah Rachel
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1 Comments
Post a CommentI agree, I wrote this article assuming that the partners reading it are attracted to each other. If your not attracted to the person your having sex with them perhaps its time for a change. However, I have been with my husband for a long time and we still find each other hot. I hope that is still the case when we are 80.