Humor is one of the best attention getting devices out there. If someone isn't paying attention and the audience laughs, he or she will focus back on you to see what go the reaction. As a general rule, you want to put an attention getting device into your speech every three to five minutes to prevent losing your audience. In addition to humor, the other common ways to get attention include asking a question, doing an exercise with the audience or asking for a volunteer to perform a demonstration.
Humor comes in many forms. Jokes and riddles are the most popular - tossing out a one-liner in the middle of your talk can help you connect with your audience. Exaggerated comments, movements or gestures can be especially effective when done right. Humorous stories, particularly if they demonstrate a main point of your talk, can help the audience retain your message. Imitations or impersonations are an easy way to capture an audience's attention, but only if you're good at them.
Here are some things to keep in mind when you want to use humor to enhance your speech:
Make sure that your humor is appropriate for your audience:
This is the most common mistake related to humor in a speech. You shouldn't say something negative about a group of people unless you belong to that group and even then, make sure it's something people won't be offended by. Also, make sure that your audience can relate to the joke, or at least understand it. Many speakers make the mistake of telling jokes about people, places or things that the audience is not familiar with and get thrown off when there's no reaction. In the event that you do make this mistake, try to follow up with: "That's funny because..." and explain the joke.
Watch your language:
With many young successes hitting the podium, there has been an increase in slang, technical jargon and even profanity in speeches. Keep in mind that what's a hit to college students or young entrepreneurs may not necessarily go over well with corporate executives who have been in the workforce for several decades. Make sure the language that you use is appropriate for your audience. If you even have to question it, then leave it out.
Get the audience involved:
Creating an inside joke with your audience is a sure-fire way to establish rapport with them. Make jokes about the room (don't be too negative), the weather or anything else that you have experienced along with the audience. Share stories about people in the audience or people the audience might be familiar with that are humours in nature.
Speak Clearly:
It's important to speak clearly when you tell the joke so your audience can hear and understand it. There's nothing more frustrating during a speech than someone mumbling through a punch line or speaking softly so can't hear the funny part of a joke.
Use Self-deprecating humor
Self-deprecating humor is a great tool. It's especially funny because it takes you off the platform in the eyes of the audience and shows your human side. Just don't overdo it or the audience will wonder why they're listening to a buffoon.
Play the gender card:
The gender of your audience makes a difference. Women tend to laugh more easily than men because men tend to be more emotionally reserved. Women will just blurt out laughing when they find something funny while men will look around waiting for someone else to laugh before they'll laugh. Try to use this to your advantage when you're trying to be funny.
Keep in mind that humor is a great attention getting device and can really help you connect with your audience. One final piece of advice is to try out new humor on a mock or safe audience. That way you'll know if it's appropriate, funny and, most importantly, if it will have the effect you desire.
Published by James Feudo
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5 Comments
Post a CommentFantastic suggestions James!
Great tips, when it comes to humor it seems as though timing is everything
Nice tips!
These are great tips for humor. I've been in Toastmasters for 10 years (2 DTMs) so I know good advice when I see it.
James, I have always been very bad with humors. This is an exemplary piece and very well written. I loved it.