How to Approach an Attractive Woman
Be direct. Men often want to seem slick and fly beneath the radar. But a woman knows when you're trying to pick her up. The best bet is to be up front with her.
Step Two
Ask for her phone number or email. Tell her you'd like the chance to talk to you more when you have time.
Step Three
Have total confidence in yourself. It resonates with the woman if you're sure of yourself. Give her a pen and paper to write down her phone number. This shows you're sure that she'll give it to you.
Step Four
Show your spontaneity without seeming overly excited. It sounds funny, but practice being spontaneous. You want to appear smooth and confident when you "run" into her.
Step Five
Be sincere by responding to her actions and confidence and adjusting your conversation. Listen to her but don't kiss her butt. There's a difference between being sincere and acting unworthy of her attention. Let her smile at you first.
Step Six
Make it a point to approach her as if you didn't go out of your way. If it looks like you made an effort to speak to her, you'll seem desperate. Know that effort is not the same as courage. You can run yourself ragged to "run" into her as long as you don't let her see you do it.
Published by Hiral Desai
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"May I ask, how do you know Tony and Maria (our host/hostess)?" "May I ask what you do for a living/what corporation do you represent here?" "That was a really nice/interesting wedding/ceremony/speech." .... Basically keep following Step One: Be direct. Besides once you get talking to her, you decide you don't want her number! So be gracious. :) And remember, becoming friends with a woman or anyone, broadens your acquaintanceship. How do you know but that you'll completely fall for her best friend/sister/co-worker. Be open to new casual friends only and just get around more. The women that men marry (and stay married) is usually their best friend. Again... good article!
Nice article. I agree with most of your points except two. I say go ahead and smile then gauge her reaction to see if you should try and proceed. Don't play games. How is she supposed to know to smile at you first? But don't forget that she may simply be polite or friendly when she returns your smile with one of her own. And a smile is no guarantee that she'll like you enough to give you her number later either. Second point .... there is no point in pretending to "run into" her. Treat a woman (beautiful or not) as a person. If you were at a business function and doing some networking, you would simply approach another man, introduce yourself and start some small talk, right? Well, give us women the same courtesy (again, no games); just walk over and say hello. Here is some sample dialogue for a variety of places and circumstances ... "Hi. My name is Frank. Do you mind if I sit here?" "Are you enjoying the party/music?" "Would you care to dance?" "May I join you?" "May I ask, how do yo
wow........gr8 ideas.......