How to Ask a Woman Out Even if it Hurts You!

There are several factors involved and several sentiments as well in asking a woman out. The ball is in your court so to speak. You have to find out for yourself if this is the woman you want to ask out. If you are interested in asking the woman out then you will definitely need to ask or you will never find out. The worst that could happen is that she will laugh in your face or go tell you to take a leap off the nearest bridge to put it mildly. However it is better to know right away that she feels this way.

The factors that you will need are honesty, humor, directness, and a gentleman's view of the lady or politeness. I will explain later on the last part. Honesty and directness go hand in hand in asking a woman out. If you know the woman even a little bit then go up to her and strike a conversation and always keep direct eye contact. Be honest and let her know right away what your intentions are. Women have often said they prefer someone who is direct and honest with them. Have a sense of humor and make a woman smile but don't be a clown. Always look into their eyes and not their cleavage. A woman wants your attention and looking straight into her eyes while talking or listening makes her feel that you are interested in her in a serious way. Always be a gentleman. Hold her chair for her while she sits and always open the doors for her. Yes it works and you will be known as charming.

You need to be yourself right from the start. Your true self will come out in your language and behavior, so do not fake what you are not. If you do and she sees it she will feel that you are either dishonest or trying to hide something and this does not build trust. One must be trustworthy and loyal. This may sound old fashioned but it is the truth and it is romantic so be a romantic.

These values also will be of use in cyber dating as well. Of course it is harder when using the computer than in person because you can not tell by facial expressions how it is going so to speak. In dating women be yourself and be true to yourself and have fun.