How to Attract People You Like

I know everybody has this problem: How to actually attract people you like. No one has problems, it seems, in attracting unattractive people to themselves. The number one problem I hear from my friends is that no one that they like likes them. Well, what do you think everyone else is saying? You are doing something to not attract people you like. We're all guilty. So here's how to attract people you like instead of people you don't like.

To attract people you like, take stock of your life. When you pass a hottie in the hallway, where do your eyes go? Do you smile? If you're like me, when I see someone I like, I immediately look down and try everything in my power not to let them know that they affected me at all, when I should be doing the exact opposite. At the same time, when someone passes me that I don't like, I don't care what I do. I could bump into them and I wouldn't care. I can stare at them, through them; doesn't matter. The first step to attract people you like is just to be nice to everybody. That way, you'll just be attractive in general.

Once you change your body language towards people you like, the second step to attract people you like is to actually talk to them. I know it's nerve wracking, but you have to start sometime. Ask them normal things like what time is it, or where is such and such a thing. And trust me, at the beginning, they will know that you like them. Who knows; you might luck up and get someone who likes you back and will return your energy. More likely though, is that you'll eventually get over your fear and start treating everybody the same. And eventually, when you meet someone you like, you'll just be able to tell them, and flirt with them, which is what you have to do to attract people you like.

Once you get over your initial fear, you have to flirt to attract people you like to you. There are many, many internet articles on how to flirt. This article is just to get you over that hump and make you realize that you were attracting people you didn't like because you didn't care. Somehow, not giving a crap is very attractive. But once you get to this stage, you will actively flirt to attract people you like, and your dating average will go through the roof. Good luck!