How to Get Attractive Men Without Giving Sex

Perhaps your religious beliefs don't allow it, or perhaps you're just not ready. But if you take your most powerful weapon off the table, sex, you will have a harder time attracting and keeping ATTRACTIVE men.

Oh sure, you'll be able to keep plenty of men who are sex starved and so don't mind waiting. But my guess is you don't want them.

So here's how to win ATTRACTIVE men without sex.

Attractive men love to be coddled.

Play house with them when they come over or after dinner as a nightcap. Bring them their slippers and coffee. If attractive men know they aren't getting sex, they want to know that they have a woman who will spoil them until she is ready. Treating him like a king will placate his more carnal needs temporarily.

Attractive men love to be coddled.

Play house with them when they come over or after dinner as a nightcap. Bring them their slippers and coffee. If attractive men know they aren't getting sex, they want to know that they have a woman who will spoil them until she is ready. Treating him like a king will placate his more carnal needs temporarily.

The last step is to tempt him with the pieces of yourself physically that you are ready to give away.

This is the most important step, because though everyone hates a tease, if he's in it for the long haul, he'll stay because you have proven in steps 1 and 2 that you are girlfriend or wife material. (I do hope you are looking for a relationship or for marriage.)

Be warned, this step will either get him super heated, depending on whether he likes your cooking and coddling, or drive him completely away if he's got easy sex waiting for him. Then you must hope that he's only using those other women for sex, because if he is, he'll be thinking of you while he's over there. Which is great for you.

That's where all our little passive aggressive games come in -- to see where his head's at. You know how to play those. So go get that guy!!