How to Have Better Sex

Since people have been having sex they've been looking for ways to make it better. Most men will say sex is like pizza even when it's bad it's still pretty good (I'd say women wouldn't agree with this statement unfortunately.) but that being said there's a huge difference between really great sex and ho hum sex.

For this article I'm going to assume that you are having sex with one partner. I want to focus on improving your sex life with the person you are with. I'm also going to assume you are a man. Yes I'm sorry ladies if you've got this far but this article is really directed at the men of the world. But don't worry I think you will like what I have to say to them (at least most of it.)

Men, the best way to improve your sex life is to improve your partners sex life. I think men often get into the habit of being lazy and selfish in bed and then wonder why there's not the same chemistry and excitement coming back at them as maybe there used to be. If you light up your woman's world she'll most likely be on her hands and knees (figuratively and yes, literally!) wanting to please you and your wildest desires.

Well OK you say, but how do I do that? How do I improve the sexual life of my woman?

What I want you to try is to set aside one sexual interaction a week where you think of nothing but her needs. Nothing but satisfying her. Now women can be quite complicated and what pleases one may not please another. Hopefully if you've been with your woman for awhile you have some idea of what she really likes but perhaps you are too lazy or selfish usually to give it to her? If that's the case well take the time now. Take the time to be a totally giving and patient lover. Women like the long slow build up. Take your time. Get her excited. Get her wet, very wet. Make her beg before you give her anything.

If for some reason you don't know what your woman likes let me make a wild guess. Try oral sex. You like oral sex right? You like receiving it. Well guess what so does your girlfriend/wife. Some women may even deny that they like it. But they do. They like it just as much if not more than you like receiving it. I think in some ways they appreciate it even more because while men can climax easily from penetration most women cannot. For many women this is the only way they are going to climax with a partner. A woman will be much more responsive and sexually exciting and willing to do anything you want her to if you've pleased her in this way recently.

You noticed that I said set aside once a week for this type or "her first" sex. Well yes. You can still get yours. The difference is now getting yours should be a lot better. She should be a lot more responsive to your desires now that you've met her needs.