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How to Buy a Wedding Dress

Finding a Wedding Dress That's Just Right for You

Kelly Bryant Pelton
I remember when I got engaged. I was so excited! I'd dreamed of this moment for years and I'd finally found the right person to share my life with. I spent hours of research and went from shop to shop to find a wedding dress. In this article, I am giving you the information that worked best for me. I hope it does the same for you.

Look through bridal magazines, online sites, and wedding shows before going to the bridal shops to see what you want. The store selection can be overwhelming, coming with an idea of what you want to buy in a wedding dress can help. In fact, the first thing a good bridal store clerk will ask you is what you are hoping for in a wedding dress. Knowing what you want helps your clerk to find that wedding dress just right for you.

A good bridal shop will always be helpful. They will listen to what you want, help you find at least one wedding dress you like, and help you try them on. If the clerk seems uninterested and lets you wander through the racks of dresses unassisted this isn't the shop for you. You are paying a high price for a wedding dress and you should expect excellent service.

You can tell the kind of service you'll get when you enter a bridal shop. Are you greeted within one minute? Many stores require this of their employees. When you ask for help do they give you a bored stare? Don't even bother with this shop, they don't want your business badly enough.

A good bridal shop can work around whatever body issues you may have. This includes pregnancy. A good clerk will help you find a dress that works with whatever body concerns you may have. Many designs can also be ordered in your specific size even if you see the wedding dress on the rack in a different size.

Even though you should expect good service when you buy a wedding dress, don't be a bridezilla. No one likes a bride with a bad temper. A good clerk is worth his or her weight in gold. They can help you put your entire outfit together from veil to shoes, as well as your wedding party's. If you are kind to them, they will be much more willing to go out of their way to help you when you find yourself in a bind.

When you try on a wedding dress, take a trusted family member or friend with you that knows your style. They'll know what looks best on you. Remember, these dresses are quite expensive. The loved one you bring along is not as invested in you buying a certain dress as a clerk is.

Look at several sources before making your final decision on a wedding dress. Once you choose a wedding dress and the alterations are made, you may be locked into your choice. Due to alterations and expense, very few shops will take returns on a wedding dress.

While you are making your final decision, try to allow a good six months in advance to ship the wedding dress and start alterations. Even a woman with a perfect ten body is going to need alterations. Not enough time to order means possibly not getting the wedding dress you want, or not getting the alterations your dress needs.

If your are planning an impromptu wedding, or want to try on dresses specifically in your size consider shopping at a national store such a David's Bridal. They keep large amounts of wedding dresses in stock in every size. You can actually buy your wedding dress off the rack this way and they sometimes have in house alterations.

If you see the wedding dress of your dreams but it doesn't come in your size or price range; consider going to a recommended seamstress and having them make a wedding dress for you. A good seamstress can tailor your wedding dress specifically for you. If you go this route, you will not be paying for the expensive designer label. A seamstress can also work with fabrics that aren't as expensive.

If you decide to buy your wedding dress from a bridal shop, order your gown a few sizes larger. This is no reflection on you. The wedding dresses usually run a few sizes smaller so you will need to plan accordingly.

Although how the dress looks is most important, remember to pick a wedding dress that is somewhat comfortable. Remember, you'll be wearing it for hours. If it's ill fitting or excessively, scratchy you won't be able to enjoy the day. Also, a bad fit or discomfort will show in your wedding pictures.

Buying a wedding dress may seem like a daunting task at first; but if you follow these tips and plan accordingly you too will find the dress of your dreams. Good Luck.

Published by Kelly Bryant Pelton

Kelly Pelton is a freelance writer who lives in Arcadia, Ohio. She is passionate about the kitchen and is an amateur gourmet cook. Her dream is to meet Alton Brown and cook with him.  View profile

  • A good bridal shop will always be helpful.
  • A good bridal shop can work around whatever body issues you may have, including pregnancy.
  • When you try on a wedding dress, take a trusted family member or friend with you.
You can tell the kind of service you'll get when you enter a bridal shop. Are you greeted within one minute? Many stores require this of their employees.

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