How to Choose the Best Name for Your Baby

Baby Names Should Be Chosen Carefully

Judy Kaelin
A person's name is often associated with their personality. There are a few guidelines that should be considered before deciding the name of your precious baby.

Family tradition should not have to be a factor in choosing a name for your baby. Some parents and grandparent apply pressure on the expectant parents to name their child to respect a particular family member. New parents should be allowed to name their child whatever they choose it is their baby and they should have the option of choosing their baby's name.

Selecting gender appropriate names may be very important as your child approaches adulthood, and could even have an affect on career choices in their future. Write the initials of the entire name you are choosing to assure your child has a nice monogram and to avoid an embarrassing acronym.

Research the meaning of the name you have chosen and consider the order of birth, the eldest son may question why his younger brother was given the honor of being called "Junior."

Take care when selecting the name of popular celebrity or the name of notorious historical characters. A child with the surname James, may not appreciate being named Jesse, or one with the surname of Franklin with the given name of Benjamin could be faced with a lot of teasing by his peers.

If you decide to follow the family tree, be careful to select a name that is not already in use by another a family member. Retain tradition when selecting a family name and avoid using creative spelling. A name with a unique spelling can cause a lifelong problem of constantly having their name misspelled or mispronounced.

Both parents should be in agreement in selecting a name for the expected baby and sharing the decision in naming the baby will help with the bonding process.

Think ahead to the child's future, because once that name goes onto the birth certificate the child is stuck with it for life.

 

Published by Judy Kaelin

Retired with fifteen years experience in the Administrative Offices of a school district. She is interested in writing articles based on personal experience and research of health issues. She has an intere...  View profile

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  • Vincent Summers8/23/2010

    Yes, you've hit all the bases. Personally, I wouldn't dismiss family tradition altogether, but it should not overwhelm other possibilities, simply because it IS tradition. It's hard to predict the personality of a person as a baby. The reputation of a person is built throughout his or her life (Ecclesiastes 7:1). One important factor in this man's opinion is to name a boy a boy's name and a girl a girl's name -- and to avoid unisex names, or name crossovers.

  • Heather Inks8/15/2010

    Names are so important. God changed Abram to Abraham (Father of Many Nations), Sarai to Sarah (Princess), and Saul to Paul to list a few changes. I researched many names and prayed until I felt "peace" regarding my children's names. GREAT and IMPORTANT article. God bless.

  • Tracie Walker8/9/2010

    Good advice; some poor kids are stuck with some amazing monikers!

  • Jack Wellman8/2/2010

    You are so right Judy...we have to think ahead for what the child will face later. Names are so important. It looks like YOUR baby's on the couch getting a nappy! LOL

  • Lorraine Yapps Cohen7/31/2010

    We have three people with the same first and last name in the family: the senior, junior, and 'other' (different middle name). They get each others' mail.

  • Pat Bartels7/30/2010

    Naming a baby should take thought. I hate when parents choose stupid names for their kids. Think of what your child has to go through all their lives.

  • Tony Payne7/29/2010

    Good tips. I love keepinf traditional names in the family.

  • Jeanne Baney7/28/2010

    Good pointers!

  • Dan Reveal7/26/2010

    Mike is right! This is another great article from you! Thanks, Judy!!

  • rmharrington7/26/2010

    Too complex. Just ask mom and dad, they love to name grandkids. LOL. Thanks, Judy. Wonderful article.

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