How to Choose an OB/GYN

So you found out you're pregnant, Congratulations! But what comes next? First off, of course you're going to want to make an OB/GYN appointment, however don't just go with any OB. Ask around from your friends and family, and ask about their personal experiences with their OB. Check out websites on line, and look around on their forums. (Mothering.com has a wonderful section devoted to this!)

When you think you've found an OB, make an appointment. Some Obs will say they don't want to see you until you are 12 weeks, that's your first warning sign. Find an OB who will see you from at least 6 weeks, as often times the prevention of miscarriage can happen if you see an OB earlier.

At your first appointment, make sure you ask what their episiotomy, epidural, c-section, etc rates are. You obviously want an OB with extremely low rates on all of these, as the higher the rates, the more likely you're going to be having a scheduled c-section so that your OB can still play golf later that day. As well make sure your needs and questions are heard, if they act rushed, then tell them they aren't the ones for you. No matter how busy a doctors day may be, he or she needs to giving individualized attention to each of their patients needs and concerns.

As far as an epidural goes, you obviously will have to research this on your own and find out if it's right or wrong for you, however know that again the rate of women who have an epidural and then have c-sections is extremely high. Make sure in all of your prenatal and labor decisions, you and your partner are well informed, well researched, and are at peace with what is happening. You can seek a Douala for extra help and encouragement during labor, so your rights and wishes are heard and granted, as well as to remind you why your desires are best.

OB/GYNs now a days are really focused on what they can get done, how much money they can make, and are often times looking past whats best for a woman's body, which unfortunately was once what their job title entailed. Make sure that you are absolutely comfortable with your OB/GYN, and always remember that a woman's body was created to birth. No matter how small you are, your bones will shift and you will be able to have a baby vaginally, you will eventually go into labor regardless of what your OB may tell you and induction is not necessary, etc.