How to Close a Conversation with a Woman During the Courtship Process

The closing should be as simple as possible. We really do not need to expound on it. The main thing is to let her get to know you before you decide to ask her out. The more she knows about you the more comfortable she will be in making her decision to accept your advances.

In regards to getting her phone number, there are a few basic rules. The first is to ask her out and ask for her phone number at the same time. Say something along the lines of, "we should go hang out sometime, can I get your phone number." This way you are killing two birds with one stone. It sounds much better than just asking for her phone number. When a man just asks for a woman's phone number, it leaves much speculation in the air.

It is best to wait at least three days before you call her back and no longer than a week. If you call too soon it will make you appear needy. If you take to long to call she will think you have lost interest and she will lose interest in you. Make sure that your first call is during the appropriate time frame, which would anytime she is not at work or trying to get some sleep. If you get her voice mail leave a brief message and wait a week until you call again. Some people don't check their voice mail boxes for a number of days.

Once you do get a hold of her on the phone, all of the verbal conversation rules that apply to face to face meetings would apply to the phone conversation as well. You will talk in a calm relaxed voice. You will be yourself and you will express a deep inner sense of security. Information sharing should be about 50-50. Nobody does all of the talking. Smile with your eyes as you are talking to her. Your body language will be expressed in the tone of your voice. Don't hold back, show your natural enthusiasm for what both of you have to say.

Just remember to end the phone call before you engage in long bouts of silence. You want to leave her wanting more. Therefore, it is best for you to be the first to end the phone call in a tactful way. Tell her that you are glad that you were able to get in touch with here but you have to get some rest, or you have to make and errand. This way you both end the conversation on a positive note.