The greatest part of an infant's early development is in the area of learning the speech and language around them. Regardless of the language they are first exposed to, their minds will spend their early months and years learning how to communicate. It is amazing how great a complexity and range of understanding of their language they can process to develop their language skills. Regrettably this learning skill diminishes as you become competent with the language.
It has been repeatedly observed that there is a major correlation between good verbal and communication skills and future success in one's chosen profession. The ability to demonstrate well-developed verbal skills indicates a high intelligence and thus is given greater respect and chances for advancement. Because of this fact, it is to one's own best interests to learn to increase their language skills beyond what was naturally developed in childhood.
The main reason we lose the concentration on verbal skills is because once reading, writing, and speech has been mastered, we tend to concentrate on developing other mental skills. What verbal skills are developed early are then put to the task of learning new things. However, as important as these skills are, it should make sense to also keep honing them throughout your life. There are several simple ways in which to keep working to increase our understanding and acuity.
Two of the best and most simple tools you can utilize are a dictionary and thesaurus. One should make a habit of checking the dictionary any time they encounter a new word or one that you are not sure of. The dictionary is essential for making sure one knows the proper spelling of the words one uses and to assure that they are being used correctly. The thesaurus can supplement this information by helping one know alternate ways of expressing a topic without having to rely on repetition and overuse of a few key words. This is as important in speaking as in written communications.
Making it a habit to specifically look up and learn new words is also very useful for honing ones communication skills. One example is the "It Pays to Increase Your Word Power" feature in the publication "Readers Digest." This section does not use esoteric words that will never be found in common use, but instead expands on the basic language base. Websites or newspapers that offer a "Word of the Day" can also be used to increase your grasp of the language.
Reading offers a multitude of ways to increase your verbal acumen. As well as providing a source of new words to learn, books and magazines provide one with examples of various methods of expression and ideology. By observing the many ways individuals express their thought will help one be able to more accurately express their own thoughts either verbally or through writing.
Another way to sharpen ones language skills is through writing. Regardless of whether you write a simple letter or email, or if it is an article or essay for school, reread your work to see that it conveys exactly what you want to express. Make sure the words you have used are easily understandable to your reader. Then see if you can make it shorter and more concise. This gives you the opportunity to evaluate the words and phrases used and how to improve their formulation and usage for context.
Video taping or recording your speech is another helpful practice that can help develop and refine your verbal skills. By listening to yourself, you will be able to detect shortcomings in your verbal skills and train yourself to avoid rambling or unclear speech. However you work on increasing the range and flexibility of your verbal skills, you will find that, as you improve yourself, you will become a more intelligent and respected person.
Published by Douglas Mefford
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