How to Cope with the Loneliness of Freelance Writing

If you've got a 'regular' job, you probably go to work, and spend time with your colleges, and maybe go out for drinks with them after. If you're lucky, you could even meet your future husband - or at least a fling.

But for those who make working from home - specifically freelance writing - their full time job, it can be a lonely, lonely choice. Working from your own home can sometimes feel like you've been cut off from others, and isolation can take its toll. After all, many writers love the contact of others - it can give us inspiration, fuel our desire to write and read, and at the end of the day, who wants to spend time alone day in and day out?

If you're a socialite who's started a career as a freelance writer, then you're going to find your days being a little lonely - even if you're a work-a-holic! But how ca
a freelance writer handle the isolation that goes along with being at a home office all day?

Well, the first step is to realize that you're not alone! Hundreds of other writers are in the same position as you are, and they're looking to be able to connect with other writers and discuss the fine art of freelancing with someone who really understands where they're coming from.

So don't, for a second, think you're alone out there! You just need to connect with a few great people.

The fastest thing to try is a simple Google search for a writers forum - you should find tons of them dedicated to freelance writers, and their specific needs. Sites like FreelanceWriting.com not only offers other freelance sites for great jobs, but a forum section dedicated to working at home freelancers who need a break from angry, annoying, or simply downright infuriating (And we've all had them!).

Even quality websites like Elance.com have gotten into it, offering 'The Water Cooler' as one of the newest additions to their website. This service is open to anyone who's a member of Elance, and they have different sections for writers, techies, buyers and more. The members are open, fun, and willing to accept those who are just looking to sit back and talk.

If talking online isn't your cup of tea, or if you're craving human to human contact, try finding a writers group locally - or start your own! Nearly every area has aspiring or even published writers, so finding a good group of people isn't difficult at all. Posting information on Craigslist.com, and making up quick flyers to put in the local library and coffee shop are easy and quick ways to gain members and attention.

If you're not sure if you'll have time to run it, see if you can find just one dedicated member who is willing to be at every meeting, keep discussions running and keep the ends tied and everything neat.

Getting a writing group together can also take your eyes away from the computer screen, and keep you from overworking, something common in freelance writers.

However you do it, connecting with other writers can help you stay motivated, feel good, and stave off the loneliness that comes with freelance writing, which can also help keep you sane.