How to Date a Capricorn Man

Old white chairmen of the board are the archetypes of Capricorn men. The sign is one of hard work, conventionality, and order. Capricorn is the expression of achievement, status, conformity for a functioning society. It doesn't sound like these men are much fun, but they usually have a dry sense of humor and a real itch to lighten up. They're dependable. They're committed. But these men might appear to be critical, worried about rules and reputation. The motivation of the Cap is to build something solid, lasting, and worthy. That's not so bad.

Of all the signs, Capricorn is the most likely to win a business contract at the age of 12. These guys put in the hours according to a professional plan. It's their idea of fun, and they're very talented at establishing respectable and expert positions in life. In addition, the men are devoted to their families; they do dedicate a great deal of time to making every member safe, productive, and as happy as they think the family should be.

Too bad that the failing of many Capricorn guys is the ostensible coldness and rigidness. They can get caught up in their ideas of propriety and forget to be human, letting the people who love them see affection of softness. Most Caps really do have strong feelings which are difficult to show. And their dependability may turn into obsession. Capricorn men overreact to their responsibilities.

Applying for the role of Cap's career partner

Capricorn men like serious women. They like ladies who mean what they say and are willing to give time toward the goals of the relationship. But these men like a softer, more wispy kind of girl, too. In a way, the Caps are very old-fashioned. They work; the wives raise the kids and cook. This vision is appealing to them, and they like ladies who love tradition.

Other factors in personality that may attract Capricorn men include artistic inclinations and emotional power. Some women can feel everything for both the people in the couple - this is what Caps are looking for. And as much as these guys like to run the household, they admire capable leading women. The right combination gives them a break from all their striving.

Living with Capricorn men

Help him climb. Behind every successful Capricorn man, there's a lady who held his briefcase and maybe kept him sane through the journey. These men love to have women on their team. If you would show him you're backing him by grooming his contacts, it's a good start.

Realize he's insecure. So much of the time, the Cap guy who seems so stony and sure of himself has no idea how to act in his personal life. Be gentle with this one; he needs some tenderness even when he looks gruff enough that you think he doesn't care.

Respect his serious side. Capricorns can take themselves very seriously. There are times when their female partners can offer them some levity, but at all times it's not recommended to make these men look undignified.

Seek respectability. The main direction here is to have some sense of status in the larger community. Without losing sight of reality (compromising the true self in search of some society page coverage), be the kind of people who have the reputation for integrity.

Mean what you say. Cap men want women who don't play games. They can be silly sometimes, but they like responsible and reliable partners.

Be productive. Or just look like you are. The guys of the sign of the old man like to see progress. They're perfectly willing to help, but they're just as likely to nag. Disapproving looks might be all you get if you're messing around. This could push you to get somewhere with your own dreams.

Let him be benevolent. Paternalism is an odd side effect of being a Cap man. He loves the act of patronizing worthy people (in the Renaissance sense of patronage). When the Capricorn is generous, he wants to feel that way. Like Daddy Warbucks.

Don't let him belittle you. Some or more like a lot of these guys will get disdainful when they're out of sorts with you. Do not let a Cap man do this; it's a habit he will claim as his right. Stand your ground - bite back. And definitely don't allow this in public.

Aim for quality. The Cap loves loves loves the things that money can buy: we're talking yachts and Cartier. You can join in his appreciation for the finer things of life in your own way: learn that you're not having nice things to impress. Those items are actually rewards for work. And you deserve them.

Commit. All of Cap man's life is about making it to the finish line, whatever that may be. He wants a person by his side who can make daily effort to get there to. You're in for a pound, not a penny.

Capricorn men can be fusty and snobby, but there's such an endearing core that you just may take your chances. They've got a funny way of making you love the little boy side.