How to Deal with Haters like Selena Gomez Does

Chrisdavy
Chrisdavy, Yahoo! Contributor Network
Jan 5, 2010 "Share your voice on Yahoo! websites. Start Here."
Not only did Selena Gomez have to quit Twitter because of all the hating, but even when I write an article ON Selena Gomez, I GET HATED ON. Fortunately, you can all use this experience as a blueprint for shrugging off the haters. Cuz Selena and myself are both doing just fine, LOL!!
  1. Be strong enough to take the high road.

    Selena Gomez, instead of responding to the hate, simply removed herself from the cesspool. Is Twitter making or breaking her paycheck? No! She just did the cover of a huge national magazine. She continues to be a role model for people, especially Latinas everywhere.

  2. After you take yourself out of the haters' line of fire, make sure that you continue your positive courses of action. The main thing about haters is that if they have time to do so, they probably are suffering from jealousy more than anything, because of an empty life. The best thing you can do for them is to be a role model by doing positive things, like Selena Gomez does all the time in her acting and music careers.
  3. After you dedicate yourself to positive action, you must, like Selena Gomez does, dedicate yourself to NOT indulging the nasty comments made about you.

    People are always going to say mean things about successful people, especially role models. You must not even read these comments, because you are the only thing that gives them credit. If you don't read them, they have no purpose! Good luck with the haters!

Published by Chrisdavy

AC's licentious, guilty pleasure. What can I say? I write about sex and money. You know, the important stuff. Giggle. (But I do it so well!) Fashion, too. LOL  View profile

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