How to Deal with a Husband Who Steals the Covers

Don't Get Left in the Cold

Crystal Ray
Everyone at one time or another has woken up cold because of a lack of blankets, and those who have a husband who steals the covers knows exactly how frustrating this can be. My husband steals the covers without realizing what he's doing, or so he says, and I'm left with the corners of two blankets and a sheet. It's hardly enough to keep me warm, especially on a cold winter night. If you're left out in the cold by a husband that steals the covers, try the following ideas. If these ideas don't work, consider separate beds!

Buy Larger Covers

My husband who steals the covers had a queen-size bed, and when we were married, his bed became our bed. It didn't take long to notice I would have trouble staying covered. He's a blanket hog! When he rolls over, he pulls the blankets with him as if he's the only one in the bed, and I'm usually left with a very small corner.

I decided I would buy a king-size cover for our queen-size bed, and my idea worked quite well - at first. Although he still tried to steal the covers, it was nearly impossible for him to pull the entire comforter to his side. After buying a larger comforter for our queen-size bed I didn't find my self uncovered and cold every night because of my husband who steals the covers, but it was still a problem.

Use Your Own Blanket

Before buying a king-size comforter for our queen-size bed, most winter nights I went to bed with my own warm and comfy cover. My cover stealing husband could pull on the bed covers as much as he wanted, but I remained wrapped up in my own personal blanket. He wouldn't dare try to pull on my cover!

Using a separate blanket works quite well for those with a husband who steals the covers, but folding an extra blanket each morning gets very old. I felt I shouldn't have to use my own blanket in our bed, and I couldn't understand how he could be so oblivious to my presence. We eventually bought a king-size bed that would fit our king-size comforter.

A Larger Bed?

My husband isn't a small guy, and maybe the solution for my chronic cover stealer was a larger bed. We ended up buying a king-size bed for our king-size problem, and it was like sleeping a mile apart. I thought for sure this would solve the problem, and although this works for some, my husband who steals the covers has kept on wrapping up and rolling over like a king-size burrito. When I don't go to bed with my own blanket, I still sometimes find myself with barely enough of the blankets to cover my body.

Pull Back!

When my husband and I were first married, I was always sweet, very polite, and giving, but after waking up freezing one too many times, I've started pulling back. If you have a husband who steals the covers, don't put up with his blanket stealing habit. Pull back on those blankets, and regain your right to stay covered at night! A husband who steals the covers won't ever change if he isn't continually made aware of what he's doing when he's sleeping, so don't be afraid to wake him up with a jerk. Grab the covers you're entitled too, and pull back hard. I've started pulling back my covers, and I've decided if king-size covers aren't big enough; it's time to get separate beds!

Published by Crystal Ray - Featured Contributor in Lifestyle

Crystal Ray is an award-winning freelance writer and artist from the Chicago area. Her passion is interior design, but she also loves entertaining and crafting. She is continually developing unique and creat...  View profile

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  • CoverStealer2/2/2011

    As a husband who steals the covers from his wife, I found it offensive when you implied that you don't trust his assertion that he has no idea what he's doing. The behavior is completely subconscious. I recently have been able to on occasion (and very infrequently at that) be able to wake up just after I pull the covers away from my wife. I have no idea what I'm doing it for. Also, my wife went on vacation for a week and I continued to pull the covers to the point where they were on the floor. I also think your suggestions are terrible as they do nothing to actually resolve the issue. I would assume that this behavior is not something that existed since day 1 of your marriage. If it is a new behavior, as mine is, I would suggest that there is something psychological behind it. Please have a little more faith in your husband. For all you know it's your lack of faith in him that's causing him to subconsciously deprive you of covers in the night (but I doubt i

  • The Bed Wetter12/5/2010

    My wife and I sleep in separate beds, and it is not because of stealing covers.

    -TBW

  • annpverg3/1/2008

    Thank you Kim for the interesting piece. I enjoyed a lot by reading it laughed and laughed and laughed. :-) :-) :-) Hi Hi Hi Hi Really interesting. Thank you once again.

  • Charlie K2/21/2008

    This was great.

  • ALBAN MEHLING2/20/2008

    Have you considered just snuggle closer? Thank You fer sharin'. Mizpah. ;-}}>

  • cathiesbloggs2/19/2008

    hahaha...I love this !!!...my hubby trys to steal my blanket every night !!...I hold tight .....:))

  • Jasmine Starr2/19/2008

    K.Ray did you write this just for me? LOL Just teasing you. Great article.. I go through this every night.. I will get my own cover.. LOL

  • Pearlygates2/19/2008

    I'm lucky my hubby is one that is always taking blankets off, so I always have my fair share.

  • Butterfly2/19/2008

    I can definately relate to this one! Great article.

  • Orchiolum2/18/2008

    "my husband who steals the covers has kept on wrapping up and rolling over like a king-size burrito"...now that's funny;) I immediately recieved that mental image!

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