How to Make Difficult Decisions Wisely

It can be hard to make a decision, especially when it affects everyone around you. However, avoiding issues can often make things more complicated. Whether it is the right or wrong one can be determined by considering certain factors and using an effective strategy.

One thing that you need to contemplate is whether the path you are about to embark on is something that you would do as an individual. The author Steve Pavlina encourages you to ask in his article, "How to Make Smart Decisions in Less than 60 Seconds", "Is this really me?" Does what I am about to do fit my personality or my inner self? Doing this will eliminate any outside influence such as family and friends. This is not to say that you should not ask for other people's advice. It is beneficial to ask for the input of others. Nevertheless, the final decision should always coincide with the way you think as an individual.

Here is another strategy. It is more hands on and takes more time but can be very effective for more complex decisions when utilized. This technique was created by the author of the book What Color is My Parachute, Richard N. Boles. In his book he introduces the Prioritization Grid. Look at this web version.- Prioritization Grid . This web version will make it easier to calculate.

The goal of this strategy is to help you to stay focused on what is most relevant or has more meaning to you. The first step is to make a list of your options from 1 through 10. Once this is accomplished you can then start to prioritize what is on the list by focusing only on two items at a time. Continue doing this until you get to the bottom of the list. By then your choices will be reduced. Once you hit the "Prioritize" button you will see those results. If you see an equal sign between your choices you will have to choose between them by clicking the plus sign below the number of your choice. Whatever is left on the list will be the most reasonable decision.

Another thing to consider is, pay attention to your emotional state when you are making a decision. Never make a decision when you are too angry or overly emotional. More than likely the decision that you make will back fire. In other words, if your boss did something to make you furious think about the consequences if you tell him off or quit your job. If you and your spouse get into a heated argument wait until things cool off before you decide to pack your bags and leave.

Putting these strategies into action can be of great benefit when you are making a decision. Remember, you always want to be in control of the choices that you make.

Sources

http://www.stevepavlina.com/blog/2007/07/how-to-make-smart-decisions-in-less-than-60-seconds/

http://www.groundofyourownchoosing.com/prioritizing_grid.htm?items=10&

http://www.findingyourmarbles.com/personal-growth/how-to-make-tough-decisions-when-you-are-depressed/