How to Divorce - Proof Your Marriage

There are many failed marriages and just as many failed relationships today as there were 50 years ago. My husband and I have been fortunate enough to have been together over twenty years now. No, it has not been easy but it has been worth it. There is nothing mystical about building a solid relationship. It just simply takes hard work, dedication and commitment. When you have that, you're off to a good start.

Statistics show that one out of every two marriages end in divorce. That's over 50%! Every person is different and every relationship is different. Remember, what works for one set of people may not work for another. However, in order to divorce-proof your marriage, there are several key things to keep in mind when you are growing a relationship and are in it for the long haul. I have listed these five key essentials to do to activate longevity in your relationship:

1) Always show your appreciation for your partner/spouse. Saying "I love you" is good. But, showing your love is much better. Do this by giving her/him some things they like. It doesn't have to be pricey or extravagant. It just has to show that you care. For instance, my husband likes bottled water. I noticed that he was running low one day and while I was out, I got him a HUGE case for his desk. He smiled brightly and said thanks.

2) Talk about everything. When the channels of communication are open, the relationship thrives because there is nothing "off-limits" to talk about. From the smallest thing to big things, discuss everything. Never deem something insignificant.

3) Keep yourself up as much as possible. If you wore makeup and pretty clothes or worked out before you got married, it's just as important to do those things after you have been together for quite sometime. This applies to men just as much as women. Give them what they married, or at least close to it.

4) Keep a unified front at all times. This applies to children, in-laws, friends, family, neighbors, EVERYBODY! Never allow your marriage and personal business become the conversation of social functions. Keep the marriage business a private affair.

5) Treat each other with respect. This means verbal and non-verbal actions. Respect the person with their things, their space, their bodies. When you show them respect, they will show you respect.

If you practice these 5 steps to divorce-proof your marriage, you can beat the statistics!