How to Get Your Ex to Return Your Calls

If you are trying to get your ex back then there are certain things you need to do and certain things you need to avoid. We are going to look at a couple of important things to do and one important thing not to do when trying to get your ex back.

Let's first begin with this idea. You must have a plan. There is no other way to approach this. But the plan must be sensible. The first part of this plan should be to call your ex on the phone. Do not use instant messaging or emails. It is important that they hear your voice as friendly and relaxed as possible.

With this idea of a friendly and relaxed voice, you must not plead, beg or make it sound like there is an emergency. Any one of these will defeat your intent of this being a friendly call. It HAS to be a friendly call. Always keep that in mind.

What you want to do in your call is simple. You want to thank them for something they have done. This has to be real but it doesn't have to be something big. Then you want to tell them that you really appreciated what they did. If you are leaving a voice message then make sure it contains those thoughts but is vague enough for them to be curious as to what you are talking about.

It is important that you must have a plan. You must know what you are doing before you call, while you call and after you call. Yes, curiosity does jump many hurdles.

After the call, just drop contact with them. This is important. How many times have you heard, "play hard to get." This is one of the best times to do that. If they think you haven't moved on then they won't be interested. Yeah, it might be killing you but you got to do this.

Now the next step, improve yourself. Get a haircut. Go to the beauty salon. Start to exercise. Clean up yourself and your living space, car whatever. You will keep busy this way and not be the same person you were when you separated from them.

Again there has got to be a warning here, you must have a plan. It has got to be a good plan. It has to be sensible. If you do the things in this article without a good underlying strategy things can get worse instead of better. If you are looking for a good underlying strategy then go to http://magicofmakingup.withbrian.com where we lay out a good underlying strategy to help you get them back.