How to Feel Sexy, Confident and Beautiful

Wendy Brock
Sexy isn't just about wearing high heels and a low-cut blouse. Feeling sexy comes from within and when you truly feel sexy, you can exude it. In order to feel sexy about yourself, you have to have self-esteem. When you feel beautiful you naturally boost your confidence. When you feel sexy you release endorphins that put you in a good mood. So go ahead and feel great about yourself and you'll see a difference in all of the relationships in your life.

Learn from sexy celebrities. If you were to look up sexy in the dictionary, you might see Angelina Jolie's picture by the definition. What makes her so sexy? Not only is she gifted with great looks, she appears to know a secret that no one else does.

Does it matter what that secret is? Not really, because just pretending you have a secret can make you look sexy. If you really want to take a guess, it's probably passion. She has passion for everything she does and you can have that same passion too.

No matter what you are doing set your mind to believe that it is the sexiest and most intimate task you've ever done. Whether you're making up a bed or applying make-up, don't rush. Make every move deliberate and with the purpose of being seductive. Pay attention to what your body is doing and slow down your actions. Slow movements can be very sexy.

Pretend you are passionate about everything you're doing. No one wants to hear someone complain about every menial task, so don't. As you practice pretending that you are passionate, you will eventually get into a habit of it and it will become second nature. Passion helps you enjoy life and will put an incredible smile on your face that will draw everyone to you.

Smiling is probably one of the easiest and sexiest things you can do. It shows that you are happy, confident, and pleasant to be around. Everyone wants to be around someone who smiles. It's also easy to talk to someone who is smiling as opposed to someone who has a frown on their face. Smiling can make you easy to approach and will have people flocking to be around you. They will also think you're up to something, which can make you even more mysterious and intriguing, even if you don't have a secret.

You don't have to spend a ton of money to feel sexy. You can be a sexy woman by just changing your attitude and outlook on life. Spending time to change your view of yourself is very rewarding and can make all of your relationships much more fun and enjoyable.

Published by Wendy Brock

Published writer, former NPR affiliate news reporter, textbook editor and proofreader, freelance writer and artist, professional and volunteer actor, and clogging instructor.  View profile

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