How to Find Out If Your Girlfriend Wants to Dump You

Are You About to Be Dumped?

andra picincu
When it comes about relationships, it's quite hard to find out what's in the mind of a woman. If she's thinking to leave you, there's no doubt that she will behave differently. Of course, your girlfriend won't send you a clear message, but there are some signs that say everything about her intentions. We'll help you to recognize them and to become aware if you're about to be dumped.

She doesn't make any future plans

Future plans are part of a serious relationship. If your girlfriend doesn't make any plans about future events, it means that she probably won't be next to you for a long time. This is why she avoids having a conversation on anything that is related to future.

She avoids your family and friends

There are two reasons why your girlfriend doesn't want to be present in front of your friends or family: either she doesn't like them, either because she doesn't want to build a strong relationship with them. In the second case, it means that she's thinking about leaving you.

She never leaves anything at your place

Women involved in strong relationships leave all kind of objects and personal stuff on your couch, in the bedroom or in any other free space. I'm speaking about some practical items: toothbrush and a pair of pajamas, or something personal (a book, for example). It is a sign that she's going to visit you again. If your girlfriend always carries her luggage and leaves nothing to you, it means that she's not going to stay with you forever.

She doesn't trust you

Women always have someone they trust. It may be about a good friend, a family member or a lover. When she tells you about various events that took place at work or at home, it means that she trusts you and that she invites you in her life. If she avoids having detailed conversation on personal matters, then she thinks that you don't deserve her explanations.

Just keep in mind that a woman who wants to have a long term relationship with you, will get involved emotionally in your problems, being next to you whenever it's necessary.

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  • T. Hillukka9/1/2009

    I have to admit, these are all very true.

  • Pattie Byrd8/31/2009

    Sounds reasonable to me.

  • carol gibson8/30/2009

    Makes sense. Nice work.

  • Janet Hunt8/30/2009

    Very insightful... Great article as always!

  • Rachel de Carlos8/29/2009

    Yup, a guy would be stupid to think a relationship was good with those signs!

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