How to Flirt with a Cougar

After writing "How to Flirt with Younger Men," a reader asked me, "Well, what if we want older women to spend money on us?" I thought that was a fair question, and so I give you How to Flirt with a Cougar. Older women have a certain flair that younger women simply can't touch. The Golden Girls was my brother's favorite program growing up, LOL! And as my reader said, cougars often do have old money to spend, and a hypersex drive, so if you get a hot one, what's the downside? Here's how to flirt with a cougar. Be warned though: Some cougars are just too hot to handle.

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To flirt with a cougar, you must first attract a cougar. The best way to attract a cougar, or any feral cat, is to give them the scent of blood and meat. Get meaty by working out -- cougars like real men; they just like them young. Now as for the blood -- that's all in the shirt and the eyes. Try the shaved chest, open button look. That's hot in LA and Paris, at least. Maybe not Michigan or Zimbabwe. Skinny jeans or cowboy jeans always work. Go with what your local style dictates, but be a little flashy with your body. Show your best assets.

After your outfit is taken care of, start the verbal flirting process. You actually have it easier with cougars, because they are much more open, and some will talk to you. Cougars don't waste time with games. However, they are still ladies, so don't go right in with sex talk. Let them do that after you lead with something innocuous but mildly forward, like your favorite sex scene in a movie, or the best date you've ever had. If you're feeling really frisky, ask about favorite positions. Cougars love to teach younger men.

Many cougars are looking for no strings attached relationships, so don't ever bring that up in conversation. Past boyfriends and girlfriends are off limits, too. If she starts talking about an ex husband without you prompting, you have a decision to make. She might be crazy, or on the rebound. Either way, you'll get great sex, but this cougar might be a clinger. Make sure she doesn't need a relationship before you flirt too heavily with her.

The last step to flirt with a cougar is really easy, because they will make it quite obvious when they like you. You can let them buy you drinks and initiate sexual innuendo -- all you have to do is not act completely scared. A little scared is actually attractive to cougars -- they like what their graceful femininity does to men. So it's ok to show that; you might even make a joke of it to flirt with a cougar. Just be ready for whatever comes, and she'll take it from there. Good luck!