To me it is uncalled for to hold a grudge because it never gets you anywhere anyhow but painful memories of the past that does not have to be there anymore. Why argue with what happened in the past? Does it do you any good to vent on what happened in the past?? No it does not because it happened so long ago.
It is not going to change your life now if you forgive and forget. Things happen in the past for a reason I know this, but to sit on it for the rest of your life is just ob sered. It does you now good.
Many of my friends don't talk anymore because of something that happened in the past which is ridiculous if you ask me. Yeah we all live in different places, but that does not mean you still cannot talk to each other.
It is a shame how quickly people lose contact with each other when they are all grown up. To find people you have not talked to for so long is exciting and when you talk to one of them they tell you they don't talk to any of the old friends anymore because of an argument they had i the past which is the most ridiculous thing I have ever heard of.
Forgive and forget is what I always say because it does no good to hold a grudge against anybody. Who cares. It was an argument. That is when you say I am sorry from both of you and move on with your lives. Be friends again. It is as simple as that. No grudges held or anything.
I will never understand why people hold grudges against other people. To me it is dumb and immature. That is just me though. I know other people do not think like I do.
It is not hard to mend relationships with friends all you have to do is say I am sorry. If they do not accept that then at least you have made your peace with them. Plus they can never say you did not apologize for what you did.
If apologizing does not work then at least you can say you tried and never gave up until you did.
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