How to Get the Girl

When it comes to article writing I have always been told to "write about something you know," and if there is one thing in this wonderful world that I know; it is how to attract women and at the very least open up new and exciting friendships. This article is going to serve as an introduction to the world of dating and the things you must know and learn.

First things first, before you go out and try to date women you need to first go out and befriend women. Women are not so different from men (growing up with three sisters did a good job of teaching me this) and most men don't understand this. Dating is similar to anything else in life; for example, if you're not good at hockey you're not going to just go out and try out for a NHL team. Before you go out and try to date you need to hang out with women and get the feel of things. Work on the fundamentals of being social with women and understand that they are human beings too. If you can talk to women like you talk to your friends (minus the vulgarity) then you will see much more success in your dating life.

Confidence, Confidence, Confidence! As with anything else in life you must KNOW you can do something before you can do it well. Go into any situation knowing who you are and confidence that you are "good enough."

Another important aspect of dating is respect. Women are wonderful and are god's gift to earth, so respect them! There is absolutely nothing wrong with joking around and using "flirty" insults as long as they are in good taste. For example, joking around with her friends and saying "is she always like this? haha" is okay; "you look fat in that dress" isn't. There's a fine line between flirting and disrespectful; if you can walk that line then you will be a very successful flirt!

Finally, even if you have unsuccessful dates make sure that you befriend whoever it is you go on a date with. If you aren't compatible dating wise, you more than likely very compatible on a friendship level. How does this help with dating? All girls have friends! I met my girlfriend through someone that I once dated!

So let's recap:

1. Hang out with girls and get used to hanging out with girls!
2. Be confident!
3. Respect women; they are wonderful!
4. When in doubt, be friends!