How to Get Girls Interested in You, AKA Spit Game

John Kim
Spitting game can be explained in many ways. In my opinion it means being the coolest in the crowd. For the past few years I didn't understand the "game". I would just follow my friend around and think I'm cool just because he can get any girl he wants and I'm his loyal friend. Slowly as I became less ignorant I learned there is some secret to his abilities. Of course he didn't even know how he got girls interested in him that easily, he just thought it was his good looks alone and his clever lines. He was also the leader type and that's what got the girls interested. The game is usually referring to how good you are at getting women to like you, but it can also be used to get guys to worship you. Although guys don't know, they are unconsciously or consciously wanting to follow you around and become more like you. They would agree to things you say and start dressing like how you dress. Women can see that and they would get attracted to it. Also when a woman sees another woman interested in the guy they get curious and look for what would get them interested as well. Soon most of the good looking women are all into you.

To raise the level of your "game" you have to start understand what people want to hear and what they look up to. I used to think being funny was the key. Being funny is sometimes useful because it kinda shows you are smart in ways that you can think of a funny line on the spot. Unoriginal jokes are a no no, you should never tell a joke heard a lot in fact don't tell jokes at all because it will make you seem like kind of loser. Unless of course your game is already good then everyone will have no choice but to laugh even if its not funny. Be tough and out going but at the same time know when to not talk. There are times to just sit and relax and let the girls think about you. Don't let someone else tell you what to do. Brag but at the same time don't brag, meaning be a smart bragger. For an example if someone brings up football remind them that you are a varsity player by saying "Oh yeah last game coach left me in the whole game and forgot to take me out, haha." You could lie of course but I prefer telling the truth. Its always better to have a person you know to confirm that information or a wingman to confirm that lie. Usually women would get curious and ask questions like "Really? what position do you play?" or "When is your next game, I want to watch" These are just some indicators of interest.

Indicators of interests are signs that a girl show to tell you they are interested. There are too many for me to list but a lot of them have to do with body language. These indicators of interest usually show before fifteen minutes of you socializing around her. Sometimes you mistaken things as indicators of interests so don't act to hasty till you receive like three or four. After receiving indicators of interest then you can get her alone or just focus on talking to that one girl that you are interested in and she wouldn't mind only talking to you, just try preventing awkwardness or say anything stupid to turn her off. After this point is a whole new step which I am not going to talk about in this context. I hope you enjoyed this editorial

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These may not all be true or may not work at all. This is just what I learned from my experience

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