How to Give and Be Given a Compliment

The other person definitely had the intention to grant our beingness and this is nice by itself, although, it is a credit points on the behalf of the giver more than the receiver is, and why? Because it requires sometime a genuine power to love the other in spite all. It can be very difficult to do so. Truly, love is the way to power and the universe complexity dissolver.

If somebody looks good and doing well then validate that as he deserve it and if he efficient, acknowledge him. He either gifted with something or worked for it, so why not to acknowledge it? He earned it.

When you give a compliment, be truthful and precise. Don't propitiate.

Compliments create power dynamic. It is connects people together by creating bond of affinity between the two. So it is ok to feel free complimenting your boss or even the IRS representative that did a fabulous job for you. Even IRS representative, I am not joking. By being positive to others, you position yourself in positive state and flow the same toward others and thus you cause your entire environment in an upbeat as well.

Now, how yourself need to response to compliment:

Simply by "Thank you". Smile.

Don't go like "Are you mad? You are not serious... After all I look as a pig"....

Or

"Oh it is nothing, don't mention it. I don't think I really deserve it...."

"I was just in a mood.... It must be accident. Not typical to me...."

Here is the golden rule:

Don't never, never, ever invalidate yourself or your compliment that you got. It is the worst sin you can do to yourself, and it is stick. It can stick to you and if you are looking for hell, you found it. Because you are the only influence upon yourself. What you say to yourself can fix to you good or bad.

Now, find a chance to return the compliment flow to somebody.