How to Give a Sensual Massage to Your Spouse

If you would like to give your spouse a treat, you can give them a wonderful sensual massage. One of the best ways to be romantic is through gentle touch. First you will need to have a surface for them to lie on. This could be the floor, the bed, or some other comfortable surface. You can either surprise them with the massage, or you can tell them you are giving them a special treat. If you are going to surprise them, it is probably best to wait until they are getting ready for bed. You can then climb on the bed with them and sit beside them. Tell them to roll over on their stomach. You can then either do a dry massage or you can use lotion or massage oil to make the massage even more sensual.

You can really make it work either way. You should start with somewhat hard rubbing motions. You can knead their back like you would dough if you were making bread. This will help get all of the knots out of their back. Then you can go into some softer massaging motions to relax them more. I always start at the nape of the neck gently then move down the back slowly. Move sensually up and down the back until you have them relaxed. You should be able to tell if they are enjoying the massage or not. Please note that some people do not like certain pressures. If they are sore, you will want to start with light pressures and then move on to harder and then back to lighter.

To make them relax even more you can almost tickle them down their sides too. Just run a finger tip or a few fingertips lightly down the side. You can also do this down the spine. Relaxation is key to an excellent massage. Other great things to make them relax more are having them take a hot bath first, putting on some soft music, and lighting some candles. If you are going to use massage oil, you can actually use baby oil, or you can purchase some very nice scented massage oils from Bath and Body Works. A great massage oil to use from them is the massage oil that is for stress relief, Eucalyptus Spearmint. You can see it here.The best hints I can give you is to use great massage oil, be sensual, and have fun. If you enjoy giving the massage, they will too.