How to Guide for Karaoke

Karaoke is a Japanese originated form of entertainment that involves a person (or group, in some cases) singing along with previously recorded music, without the lyrics. While some people prefer purchasing karaoke equipment to enjoy in the privacy of the home, others prefer gathering a bunch of friends and heading down to a local bar or restaurant to kick back, have a few drinks and (in most cases) make fools of themselves.

The first time you make the decision to go to a karaoke bar there will be several rules for etiquette. Depending on where you go, the tips could vary. No matter where you go, my first suggestion is to get there a few minutes before they begin. This will give you enough time to grab a drink and watch what goes on while you get up your nerve to sing.

TIP #1: Do not boo or heckle anyone on the stage! - Keep in mind that this is NOT American Idol and some may be really good while others may butcher your favorite song. Everyone goes to karaoke to have fun and unwind, not to worry what someone else thinks about their singing ability.

TIP #2: Give applause for everyone! - Even if it's the worst rendition of "I Will Survive" that you have ever heard, clap anyway. Others will return the favor no matter how bad you suck! Karaoke singers seem to have camaraderie between them.

TIP #3: Do not select a song that someone else has already sung. - It's tacky and it can be viewed as a "challenge". It's not worth it. However, if it's the only song you know you can sing, it will probably be ok to sing it again. If you've given your request to the KJ (karaoke jockey), and someone else comes up with your song first, try to find another one. A variety of songs at a karaoke session is always good.

TIP #4: Keep to your skill level! - If you struggle with the words to a song or are unsure of some phrases, DON'T grab the nearest wireless microphone and start skipping around the room like Cyndi Lauper if you can't get the words right. Reserve this for the more experienced karaoke singers.

TIP #5: Be kind to your KJ! - They hold your fate in their hands. If you give them a lot of crap, hover, or are pushy, you may get bumped from the line up all together. They have the power. Be nice. Keep in mind that you may be bumped out of order to allow for newcomers to enjoy the experience as much as you have.

TIP #6: Tip your KJ! - They are people too and deserve to be paid for their hard work and their time, especially.

Essentially, the most important part of karaoke etiquette is to give everyone their personal space and welcome the newcomers as part of your harmonious family.