How to Get a Guy to like You

Flirting is a very conspicuous task when trying to find a lover, or just find someone to have a good time with (as this is often a common occurrence in this generation; clubs, etc.). Yet, as often guys come up to girls and flirt or try to "pick them up," one can sometimes see a girl trying to pick up a guy. What is it though, about their actions - their movements - their undoubted high level of confidence (at least most of them, that is) that seems so easy to them? Girls may seem somewhat mysterious to guys, but really they are no different. Simply, at times, they are much more confident in how they approach the opposite sex than how guys act when they do the same.

This article is for those girls who are somewhat uncertain, or unsure, of how they should act around guys. Well, I can tell you exactly what a guy (most times, at least) is looking for in a girl. Guys are seeking for confidence, yet approachability is a characteristic that must not be ruled out due to the desired confidence in a girl. Guys, of course (and as shallow as it is) want a good looking girl, but the standards change from guy to guy. Therefore, if you're a girl and you have had a crush on one guy for months or years, and he really has paid no attention to you if you've tried to interest him, then it's time to move on. There will certainly be tons of guys in your life, so it really is not worth it to get hung up on one. Now, this is not necessarily a fact, rather a recommendation to those who are seeking a good guy. You will find a good guy yet you must not get hung up on one that isn't interested. If a guy is not interested, then simply move on and find another one.

Another important thing in our generation is the concept of physical appearance. YES, guys do like pretty girls; however, it is not okay for girls to commit such acts such as bulimia, anorexia, etc. That is a current downfall of the younger generations, and it really must be stopped. If you do not have any issues with these, then certainly feel free to move on. Yet if you do, really, you should stop as it does nothing but damage your body physically, emotionally, and certainly permanently. And, if a guy wants you to do that, then he is certainly not the type of guy a good girl should be interested in.

Anyhow, the most important parts about flirting, as stated above, are the levels of confidence that are exhibited by the female. Yet, if you are unapproachable, then most guys will feel uncomfortable talking with you, and will simply pass you by. Don't let that happen. Also, don't get too hung up on looks, but they are not a bad thing to take care of. Pluck your eyebrows, keep an acne-free face, wear appealing clothes, keep an athletic/healthy build to your body, etc.

Good luck in finding the right guy, and don't get hung up on one that isn't all over you. If he wants you, you'll most likely know it. Happy flirting!