How to Get a Guy Without Trying

Guys don't handle pressure well when it comes to dating. Take away that pressure, however, and they're taking things to the next level without you even asking them to! For example, when a girl drops hints at becoming exclusive, the guy will instantly feel backed into a corner, and things usually go downhill from that point on. What a smart girl should do is allow the guy to bring it up. What if he takes a long time to do so? It's worth the wait, because then you'll know that it's genuinely what he wants. You can't force love to happen, it just happens. And if it doesn't, then it's not love. Don't you want it to be real? Then wait. It will come to you when you least expect it. What's the rush anyway? You have your whole life ahead of you. The following list of guidelines are for you to read and follow. They work every time, 100% satisfaction guaranteed or your money back:

BE ALOOF. Treat love as if it's the last thing on your mind. Lead a full life, and never change your schedule or cancel on the girls to be with him. If he truly values you as a person, he will attempt to work with your schedule, and you won't be burning any bridges with any of your girl friends because they won't feel as if you're ditching them for the "new guy". This will also make him value your time more and he'll realize you're an entity hard to come by,
DON"T MAKE DEMANDS. If you make demands of him too soon, you know what he's going to think? "She's acting this controlling already and she's not even my girlfriend. I'd better get out now while I still have the chance. Bye!" A demanding chick is a red light and can even scare Mr. Right off. Remember, you want him to run to you, not away from you.
BE ONE OF A KIND. Stand out from the other girls in this world. Showcase how unique you are. There is nothing more impressive than a girl who is passionate about her life and the things she does, not to mention a girl who is fearless. People always want what they can't have, what is rare and hard to find. Once he sees that you're not easily replaceable, he's not going to let go of you so easily.
LEAVE HIM WANTING MORE. They say too much of anything can be a bad thing. Resist the urge to spend every moment with him. Drive him wild with a sensual kiss good night, or when you hug him goodbye, let your manicured hands trail down the back of his neck or the rim of his ear. The slightest touch will drive him wild, and the fact that you only give him a sample will build his increasing desire for you. The anticipation will build up, and in the end, it will all be worth the wait.
BE A HOT COMMODITY. If you're constantly at his beck and call, he will take you for granted. Make it known that your time is precious and desired, that way he will be sure to reserve his time with you in advance. This will make him appreciate the time with you that he is allowed. Also, allow it to be casually known that others are in hot pursuit of you. When a guy senses even the slightest competition, you can bet anything that he'll step his game up. After all, he doesn't want to lose the grand prize: YOU.
LET HIM CHASE YOU A LITTLE. It's for your own good, in addition to serving as a means to satisfy his natural male tendencies. If something isn't worth chasing, it's simply not worth having. Don't make him jump through hurdles to have you, but definitely keep him on his toes. This will ensure that he truly wants you, because he would have given up by now if he didn't.
LAST BUT NOT LEAST, HAVE FUN. People always tend to forget this one. And it's the most important! Dating is a fun experience, and you should enjoy every moment of it. No need to be so serious! Keep your standards (date guys that are worthy of you), but lose your expectations (don't expect a marriage proposal after date number one). With a mindset such as this, you're less likely to be disappointed, and you're headed for success.