How to Help Your Child to Adjust Going Back to School

Lois Ryan
When your child got out of school at the beginning of summer, he looked forward to more than two months of freedom. The beginning of the school year seemed in the far future. Before you know it, school is just around the corner. Even if your child is going to be in the same school as last year, he may be anxious about going back. He even has to get back on a schedule.

If you child is anxious about starting a new school year, listen to him. If he expresses fears, tell him that you care and understand. When you acknowledge his fears, this communication might help it disappear.

Share stories with your child about your own school experiences. Tell them what it was like when you went to school. This shows your child that he was not the only one who was anxious about the first day of school.

Use activities your child was involved with over the summer vacation and tell him how they will help with school. For example, if you child read books during his vacation, explain how his reading will help him get better grade than the students who did not read.

A week before your child is to go back to school, get him back on a sleeping and waking schedule. Have him get used to going to bed and waking up at a specific time. That way he will not go to bed late on the night before his first day of school. You do not want your child starting his first day of school tired.

If your child is shy and does not make friends easily, host a back-to-school party. This allows your child to interact with his classmates and maybe make a friend or two. Decorate your home with the school colors. You can offer drinks and snacks or have a cookout. Give goodie bags with some basic school supplies such as pens, pencils and erasers.

Help your child be prepared. Have you child pick out his clothes for the first day of school. Help him decide what to bring for lunch and snack. Have his backpack packed with his school supplies, ready by the front door.

Finally, help create a study place at home. Make sure there is adequate lighting, free from distractions such as the television or computer.

These are just a few of the tips to help your child to adjust going back to school. They will help ensure that he will have an enjoyable school year.

Published by Lois Ryan

I have wiorked in the manufacturing business for over 15 years. I am married and have two daughters ages 12 and 14. I recently graduated with a Masters in Business from the University of Phoenix and want t...  View profile

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