How to Get on Her Good SIde

A Message to All Men

LeQuire

It's a commonly known fact that women are usually more affectionate than men. Sometimes that can cause the two to bump heads! If you're a man, whether you are trying to get out of the dog house, be more romantic, or just want to do something nice, here are a few tips for you.

I Love You
Sometimes women just want to really hear you say you love them. You can't just say it and be done with it, however, you have to really put your heart into it. Trust me, we can tall the difference! That doesn't mean that you have to say it every five minutes, you have to say it when you really mean it and the time is right. This is especially true for those of you who don't like to say "I love you," sometimes she just needs to hear it.

Pamper Her
That's right! Every woman loves to be pampered in some way, shape, or form. Give her a back or foot massage, breakfast in bed, or a day to relax and you do the house cleaning. Whatever it is that she works hard at, give her a break once in a while and you take over. She will appreciate it more than you know. Have you ever heard of treating others the way you want to be treated? Well, if you pamper her once in a while, you just might get some rewards in return! That should give you some motivation. Remember though, you can't do things for her with the expectations of getting something in return or you'll never get it. You have to do things out of the kindness of your heart. Again, she will know the difference, no matter how well you try to hide it! If, for whatever reason you're not capable of doing these things, send her to a day spa and let her get pampered, but it's much, much better coming straight from you.

Cook
Most of the time, the women are the ones preparing all of the meals, but not always. If you fall into this category, surprise her with dinner one night. Make it nice, have candles and wine, the whole nine yards! The reason I say you have to go all out is because it has to be special for her, especially if you never cook. So give it your best and show her what you've got. Even if you have to cheat and order take-out, you may lose a couple brownie points, but you'll still be doing great!

These are just a few suggestions. Get creative and do things that you know she will like. A woman is going to love anything that she feels is heart-felt and something you put a lot of thought into. She will appreciate things like that and as I stated before, you may even get rewarded for it! It's a win-win situation for you guys! You certainly should avoid acting like you're doing something for her just so that she'll get over being upset with you or whatever the case may be. If she doesn't know that you are doing something for her because you really want to do it, you're wasting your time. Women are complicated and we know it! It probably takes a lifetime to figure us out, but men are no different. Overall, you just have to show her that you love and appriciate her. It's not always about saying it, but more so about showing it. There are a thousand different ways to tell her that you love her, but only you can know the right way for your woman. Remember to think of what she likes and go from there. Good luck to you and I hope this information can help you out!

Published by LeQuire

I am a full time student and full time mom of 2! I am working my way into nursing school right now and keeping my fingers crossed to get in!  View profile

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