How to Make Her Miss You After the First Date

andra picincu
You just had the first date with your dream girl and now you're asking yourself what to do to maintain her interest in you. Be careful, one wrong move can make all the magic go away. Maybe for some of you, these are just games for children, but some details matter very much, being crucial for those who are in such a situation.

1. Don't call her immediately after your first date

If you want to look a little bit more mysterious, don't open your soul like a book and don't share your feelings from the first moment. It's fine to show that you like her, but this doesn't mean that you have to tell her directly. Even if you're just waiting to send her a text message just for saying "Hello", it would be better to stop thinking about. Let her think about you and to ask why you aren't calling her.

2. Don't accept all her invitations

It's a good sign that she wants to take you out, but you mustn't accept it every time. It might be a simple test to check how available you are. Reject her invitation, at least once, telling her that you promised to your friends to go out with them. Tell her you are sorry and that you will make it up soon. Although she will seem sad, she will enjoy that you're a serious man, different from others (who are always available for her).

3. Stop chatting

When you call her, try to tell her clearly your message. Avoid having long conversations, because you might seem boring. The whole idea is about looking busy, while making small steps to a beautiful relationship.

Published by andra picincu

I am a freelance writer/ copywriter with a background in marketing and psychology. After working for three years for well established companies, I have developed excellent editing, researching and writing sk...  View profile

6 Comments

Post a Comment
  • Someone better1/19/2010

    Mind games. Simple as that.


    Nobody likes mind games. Be you, or be alone.

  • Janet Hunt9/9/2009

    Nice tips. Hope these guys are reading! :-)

  • carol gibson9/9/2009

    These are good tips. A survey on this showed that most dating relationships that fell apart early on because one of the people tried to move in too fast.

  • Rachel de Carlos9/8/2009

    I hope the guys are reading this! Great stuff!

  • Jennifer Waite9/8/2009

    Thanks for this!

  • Dan Reveal9/8/2009

    I always benefit especially from your relationship articles. I can't see into the mind of a woman completely, but you give me a good chance with your great writing.

Displaying Comments

To comment, please sign in to your Yahoo! account, or sign up for a new account.