How to Get Her Phone Number

Guys, getting her phone number is all about the stuff you do before you ask. By the time you get her phone number, there shouldn't even be a doubt in either of your minds as to if she'll give it. As a matter of fact, if you employ these three steps correctly, you could demand her phone number at the end of the conversation, and she'd give it to you. Here's how to get her phone number.

When you approach, do so with confidence. There are plenty of articles about this all over the internet, but what you need to know is that a girl has already made her decision by the time you get within striking distance about everything you're going to ask. And by making a decision, I don't mean she says in her head, "I'm not giving him my phone number." The decision she makes is if she's going to let you lead her or not, and how far. If you're a slovenly, inarticulate guy who doesn't have his own life together, why would someone else let you lead them? Look like you have yourself under control, and you can get her phone number easily because she wants to know how you got there.

After your approach with confidence, now you just have to show that you're a normal human, basically, and not a freak. So you can talk about anything under the sun, just not how sexy she is. Throw that in if you want, just don't dwell on it. Believe me, she's heard it all before. What matters more than what you say is how you say it. Your body posture must be good, you must have strong opinions and be able to back them up, and you must be powerful yet reserved. The number one fear of women is to give their phone number to a stalker or freak who will hurt them. This is a justified fear. So just be normal at that first conversation. Don't be thinking date or relationship. You don't even know this girl!

The third step to get her phone number is to act like you're the one who's deciding whether to ask. In asking, you actually have the power. You could have just ignored her. So your conversation with your future date should be challenging her viewpoints and opinions to see if she has anything to say. Make her impress you. The way you turn the tables is to get her with a good joke that's not mean spirited. Like if you meet her at the grocery store and you see peanut butter in her cart, grab it and say, "Glad to see a model who finally got over the bulemia thing. You have to eat, girl." Stuff like that. If she laughs, continue. You're in.

This conversation shouldn't be more than 3 minutes. You're a busy guy with stuff to do. After you get her laughing and you test her to see if you even want to get her phone number, say goodbye and turn to leave. Then turn back around quickly, and say something like, "You know, you should let me call you so we can continue this. This was fun." Then hold out your phone like it's not even a question of whether she'll give you her phone number or not. If you remove this question from the equation, and your interaction was good, she'll follow your lead, and you'll get her phone number. Good luck!