How to Get Her to Realize that You Care

We always hear people saying 'Chivalry is dead'. Is it? The answer is no. There are still gentlemen out there that have a larger opportunity to sweep a girl off her feet than the average Joe blow. If your in a relationship or just starting one and you are really into her, there are ways to prove that you mean business and that you can be the gentlemen of her dreams!

First tip to showing her that you do have that 'chivalry' in you is to prove it! Open doors for her. There is nothing sweeter to other women than seeing a man open a door for the female he is with. It shows them that you respect them. If your girlfriend asks you why you never open doors for them, it is because they want you to do so! It's not that hard and it is a small act that means a lot. Some girls may act as if they don't care but usually that's not the case. Every girl wants to feel special and if you open doors for her it shows you that to you, she is special.

Compliments are always a key way to go about making your girl feel special. Comment on her hair, make-up or outfit. Show her that you take notice of all that she does to keep you interested. Us girls don't spend all that time getting dressed for nobody to notice and chances are if you don't notice, there is a guy around that does and if you're not careful, they make swoop in and take her away. To make a long story short, pay attention to the little things she does and let her know that you notice and like it.

Don't take your girlfriend out to dinner and tell her to pick up the check. I know times have changed and women are out there making paper just as much as the men but it is always nice to have a guy that isn't cheap. It shows that you value your time with her. Don't be a cheap-skate.

Be affectionate. This one is tricky. You don't want to over-do it or make yourself look desperate, girls can pick up on that. However, if your into somebody, show them that you are by flirtatious touching and playfulness. Pay attention to them even when your friends are around or you in a group of people. Showing a person they are higher on your scale of concern as opposed to others really lets a girl know that your feeling her. Don't be shy, most girls find that uncomfortable and very boring.

All in all, show her that you are a gentlemen. Treat her with respect and be attentive. You may not realize that your not doing these things and I hope this article has proven to be helpful for you to catching and keeping that special girl!