How to Hire a Mommy Helper

Do the kids have you feeling a little overwhelmed? Do you wish you had a private nanny to take care of them while you got pedicures and coffee every day? Well, while we know this isn't a reality, most parents don't realize how helpful - and inexpensive! - hiring a "Mommy Helper" can be.

What is a Mommy Helper?

A Mommy Helper is someone who comes into your home once, twice, or more a week. Their main focus is to watch the kids for a few hours while you nap, do household chores, run errands, or all of the above. They are usually only in your home one to two hours a week, most often with you still in the home while they play with and take care of your children.

Who Should Get a Mommy Helper?

Any parent is a good candidate for hiring a Mommy Helper. (Or, in some certain cases, the title could be changed to Daddy Helper!) Basically, any parent who needs an hour or two to themselves, a few times a week or month should have a helper. Remember, having help does not have to be a regular occasion. If you cannot afford to pay a helper every week, consider selecting one for once a month or less.

Where Do You Find a Mommy Helper?

If you are lucky enough to have family or friends that you trust with your children, they always make a good candidate. However, if you live far away or are new to a particular area, check with local nanny agencies. Also, many college and high school students studying child development or getting teaching certificates would be happy for the experience. Church youth groups are also a great place to find a helper. Ask around. You might be surprised who you know who would be happy to entertain the kids for a few hours for you!

Getting Comfortable

Also, remember in the beginning until everyone is comfortable with the situation, there is nothing wrong with staying inside the house while your Mommy Helper is present. Once you feel comfortable with them and are sure things will work out, then you can start adventuring outside the home by yourself. Keep in mind a Mommy Helper is supposed to release you from stress, not make you feel uncomfortable when leaving your children in their presence!

Costs

Depending on the age of your children, the number of children, and whether or not you will be present in the home at the same time your Mommy Helper is will all determine an appropriate rate to pay.