How to Host a "Domestic Diva" Party and Raise Money for Charity

I arrived at the theme for the "Domestic Diva" party because I was so inspired by the talented friends I have, who, over the years, have shared tips, ideas, projects and recipes. Wow, what fun would it be to gather them in a party atmosphere and have them share their ideas, I thought. I quickly went to work on invitations. I then got the idea that I could use the party to help those less fortunate by collecting money for a homeless shelter for women. Even though it was an afterthought, I believe it was worthwhile to be able to present the shelter with a check for $390.00! I was thrilled and had such fun in the process of having my own home-spun fundraiser.

The first thing I did was to create a list and send invitations, quickly and economically, by one of the online sites. I like "Sendomatic". I chose a retro 50's style woman dressed in a plaid dress as the motif. In the content of the invitation, the theme of the party was outlined and guests were instructed to bring with them a craft idea, decorating tip or maybe a great recipe to share. Of course, that part wasn't mandatory. If a guest wanted to demonstrate how to make her craft, she was asked to bring the necessary tools or supplies. In order to save my sanity and time, I did the party potluck style and asked each guest bring an appetizer or dessert. I supplied beer and wine (lots). I had my various crafts out such as bath salts in pretty jars with fun labels, decorated storage boxes and fun bookmarks made from leftover bamboo wallpaper. A little after 4:00, on a pleasant Sunday afternoon, guests began arriving carrying various craft items, as well as crab dip, quiche, brownies, and lots of other fabulous appetizers. The party was held outdoors on my patio, but I was prepared to host it inside if the weather didn't cooperate. The guests mingled, chatted, ate, drank and got to know one another. About an hour into the party, I introduced my first demonstrator who showed us how to make wonderful personalized garden plaques using cement and colorful stones. My niece then demonstrated how she makes beautiful purses from old neck ties. Another guest showed how to convert a plain bulletin board into an elegant piece of art. The conversation flowed as did the wine. Meanwhile, situated strategically near one of the food tables, I had a large glass jar with a label on it that read "Donations for Shalom House. Every dollar helps." I was so happy to not be in the awful position of having to verbally ask for money; but rather let the jar speak for me. Some of my guests commented that they felt relieved to go to a party where they weren't expected to buy anything.

A total of 18 wonderful women showed up and shared their crafts and ideas with others. The purpose of the party was threefold:

a) To have a fun social gathering.

b) To raise money for charity.

c) To share fabulous ideas and make new friendships.

Having a Domestic Diva fundraiser party was very fulfilling and an effortless way to help those less fortunate, as well as to learn something. I am already planning next year's party which may include a cooking demonstration by a chef/friend from a well known local restaurant. So much to learn - so much to give!