How to Identify a Hater

Haters are people who don't necessarily hate you but they hate you doing better than them. A hater won't always hate on you as long as they are doing better than you. A good way to sum up the mentality of the hater is by the hater's creed "I wish you well just don't do better than me."

Sometimes identifying a hater can be hard because the hater is often someone who has been close to you for a long time and is in your close circle of friends. The hater is often someone who you think highly of because they have been right there for you whenever you were down and out. You must think hard about these times and wonder if they were there to seriously help you or is it possible that they were there when things were bad because they secretly enjoyed seeing you down? Now that your mind is open to the sneakiness of a hater next time you have good news look for one of these three behaviors.

Step 1: Instead of smiling and being happy for you a hater will think of something negative to say. They don't want you to be happy. Your happiness to a hater is like kryptonite to a hater they can't handle it so they try to get rid of any happiness you feel.

Step 2: Haters are very tricky and will often think of something to make your good news or achievement less impressive than it really is. One way they do this is by bringing up someone they know who has done what you did better or simply acting unimpressed.

Step 3: The passive aggressive hater will simply roll their eyes and become quiet trying to hide their discontent and may even just leave so they don't explode in front of everyone from jealousy.

To find out how to handle a hater visit article below.
How to Handle a Hater
There are two schools of thought when it comes to handling a hater depending on your relationship with the hater.
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