How to Improve Your Child's School Attendance Record

Back to School Plans for Getting Kids Up and Out Each Day

Nora Beane
School related parenting involves learning how to improve your child's school attendance record. Getting kids up and out each day can make a huge difference in their ability to grow academically throughout the year. Interrupted or irregular school attendance can slow student progress as the young person becomes disengaged and struggles to catch up. For the child who is repeatedly missing classes, school can become an unhappy place and a discomfort zone because the child is on edge and out of sync with his or her classmates. This constant struggling to catch up can make the student even more resistant to attending school from day to day and the cycle swirls downward.

While all children get sick and miss days of school you can help your child to fully enjoy and benefit from school by considering some of these suggestions for how to improve your child's school attendance.

The best place to begin is frequently with a serious, but of course age appropriate, conversation with your child before the school year begins about how important it is to make school attendance a real priority in the coming year. In your discussion explain that you know there will be a few times during the year when your child gets sick and needs to stay at home. Make it clear in fact that you want your child at home when he or she is really sick but with only a few other exceptions you want your child to plan on getting to school each day because, simply put, that's the best way to learn. Explain the confusion that can result and the difficult time that children have catching up to the class when days are missed.

You can get your children on board with the improving their school attendance by using a special calendar to record their attendance during each week. Let younger children color in or check off each day they complete. Arrange for a little recognition for each full week completed. Increase the recognition as consecutive days pile up. Kids do really respond to visual encouragement. Seeing their regular attendance pattern recognized can help to get them up and out each day.

Key to improving your child's school attendance record is the attitude which he or she has about going to school. So to improve your child's school attendance record, do everything in your power to make them happy about each day's experience. This requires personal attention and a different approach for each student, an approach which seeks to recognize specific stumbling blocks and impediments to a happy school day. Some children don't want to go to school because their homework isn't done, because they hate gym, because they are over-tired, because they lost a school book or have to give an oral report. The excuses are limitless but with a little detective work and lots of encouragement parents can discover the root cause of the student's desire to miss school and help to surmount the difficulty. What is crucial is that the parent help the child to address whatever is causing a discomfort at school rather than regularly giving in to problems.

Keeping your child healthy and well rested can be key ingredients to improving your child's school attendance pattern. Worn out children don't want to roll out in the morning and this feeling can build over the course of the year. This means setting a reasonable bedtime and sticking to it, even if it means cutting back on family or parent activities in the evening. Getting your child to bed may place demands on you but it will also mean cutting down on the early morning hassle.

Finally help your child to feel in control of the school experience by building organizational skills. Show your kids by your own example how much easier getting up and out in the morning can become when you organize the night before. Insist that children learn to lay clothing out for the following day, locate all materials that need to go with them to school, plan for tomorrow's lunch and think of one thing that will be fun tomorrow at school. With this kind of positive preparation most kids will be able to face the next day without feeling anxious or upset and will be less likely to fall back on the idea of simply taking another day off.

Improving your child's school attendance is a positive step that all parents can take towards investing in the academic success and daily happiness of your children.

Published by Nora Beane

I am a former high school history teacher and Director of Religious Education with a total of 27 years of active experience as teacher and administrator. I am now a semi retired freelance writer. I have two...  View profile

  • Regular school attendance is key to academic learning.
  • Parents can help by fostering regular sleep hours and preparation for the next day.
  • Parental recognition and encouragement of good attendance can be crucial.

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