How to Improve Your Dating Success - Date by Zodiac Compatibility

Online dating sites are big right now and there are lots of them to choose from. They all pretty much work the same. You post a profile and a photo of yourself and provide an email address for members to contact you at. Some of these sites will show the zodiac sign of the person on their profile, so if a member messages you you can see what his sign is. If you are not familiar with the Zodiac Signs and their meanings, I would suggest going to your library and checking out some books on the subject, it will really help you to know your own signs and to know how you are compatible with others.

The first thing you'll need to do is find out what your zodiac sign is. Go to the library and look for one of the book titles listed below, Linda Goodman's Sun Signs is a good one to start with. Find out your sign by looking up the month and day you were born, this will tell you what your sun sign is. It is a basic personality profile, basically the part of your personality that people see in you. From here you can also find out what signs you are most compatible with and which signs you are least compatible with. This is a big thing here, because once you know your sign you can look up the signs of past relationships and see that you may have been with someone totally incompatible with you. The sun signs give you a clue to your personality type so you can pick people who are better suited to be compatible with you.

There are four basic elements: air, earth, water, and fire. Each sign represents one of these qualities. Air is intellectual, where earth is more centered and grounded, fire means transformation and change, water goes with the flow. It can be a little hard to understand in the beginning but once you understand it, it will be easy. Think about the old saying that fire and water don't mix. Water suffocates fire, puts it out. Fire needs air to grow and thrive. So a fire sign (Take Aries for example) would be incompatible with a water sign (Pisces) but would be compatible with an air sign (Gemini). And air signs like Gemini have a hard time getting along with earth signs like Scorpio and Virgo. Their personalities clash. These clashes also pertain to love relationships as well. A lot of relationship problems are caused by personality conflicts.

Dating someone by their Zodiac Signs will improve your dating success by matching you with people who are already compatible with your personality type, rather than just guessing and hoping you get along. Put two air signs together and they will keep each other busy talking about everything under the sun. Talking about their favorite poet or the novel they just read. These two are intellectuals and they stimulate each others mental faculties. Have you ever seen a relationship between two people where one is outgoing and talkative, and the other is quiet and withdrawn? These relationships don't last for the obvious reason, the outgoing person needs someone that will be outgoing with them, be adventurous and like to go places. The withdrawn person likes to stay at home, doesn't like to socialize. These two are ill matched.

So now that you have a little understanding of the Zodiac Signs, I suggest getting one of these books and learning all about the different signs and their meanings. These books are also available at your local library. They are excellent resources and contain a lot of good helpful information. Once you know your personality type, try out one of the websites listed here that matches by Zodiac Signs and start dating people who are better suited for you.There are a lot of these sites popping up now as this concept of "Dating By Zodiac Sign" becomes more popular. Some charge a membership but a lot of them are free.

Resources:

Books:
Linda Goodman's Sun Signs
Available in paperback edition at Amazon.com for $7.99
This will give you an overview of the signs personality and traits.

Linda Goodman's Love Signs
Available in paperback edition at Amazon.com for $14.04

Linda Goodman's Relationship Signs
Available at Amazon.com for $7.99

Dating sites:

www.starmatch.com (Free membership)
www.astrologypassions.com/ (Free membership)
www.connectingsingles.com/astrology_dating.html (Free membership)