How to Improve Your Sex Life with Just a Few Easy Steps

Jeanne Marie Kerns
If you are in a relationship and the sex is just not working out the way you have planned it to, take a little advice from some of us who have great sex lives. It does not take much to have a great sex life at all, just a few little tips and you to will be back to enjoying sex with your partner in no time.

Honesty

No matter what kind of relationship you are in, if you are having sex the first thing that you have to remember is to be honest and up front about what you like and dislike. Nobody is going to enjoy anything if they are in the dark, open up and talk about what you enjoy.

Pornography

Take you and your partner to the adult book store around the corner and rent or buy some pornography. Some of the best ideas can come from watching other people. Before you knock it, you have to try it, then you can say you either like it or don't !

Erotic Toys

While your out at the adult book store, be sure and check out the selection of erotic toys they have to offer. Take your time, talk out which one might be fun to try, and go from there. Do not limit your sex life with your partner, explore and enjoy one another.

Dirty Talk

Talk dirty to each other throughout the day. Have your significant other text, email, leave you notes and leave you phone messages on those days that are just too long and lonely. By the time you both are home, the intense feelings are very present and ready to explode.

Sensual Fruits

Go out and buy some beautiful fruits and feed each other them. Just like the movie 9 1/2 weeks, make it an erotic experience for the both of you. You will be amazed at how sexy someone can look eating a strawberry.

Lingerie

Go out and buy some sexy lingerie. No matter how you are built, all women can go out and buy something sexy for themselves. Surprise your partner by coming out of the bathroom with a beautiful laced nightie. I bet all eyes will be on YOU !

Last but not least, if your partner is not doing something right or if it does not feel right, TELL THEM ! One of the major reasons people have bad sex is because they allow it to be bad. Open your mouth and tell them exactly how you want it.

Published by Jeanne Marie Kerns

My passion is writing. Helping those in need get their message out is something I strive for. I love to interview those who do not feel that what they have to say is not being heard. My hand is the extension...  View profile

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  • Briana Blair6/7/2010

    Variety is the spice of life! Good tips to keep things spicy.

  • Brendon Bourne12/19/2009

    I think I love you

  • David A. Reinstein, LCSW9/14/2009

    A brave and important subject - well handled!

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