How to Introduce Your Foot Fetish to Your Wife

So you have a foot-fetish and you're wondering how to introduce this to your wife, girlfriend, or partner without being laughed out of the bedroom? It's an understandable query. Mainstream media has used you incessantly as the butt of many a sexual joke for years, and the majority of people out there hate feet, but let's look on the bright side shall we?

It could be worse. Imagine what other, more extreme fetishists go through the first time they ask their partner to indulge them. No, you definitely don't have it that bad, and I believe that in this article I can give you some proven strategies I have read about over the years that will help you to share a very personal part of your sexuality with the one you care about the most.

In every serious relationship you have, you should never encounter a problem incorporating my fetish into your lovemaking. Your success will come very easily due to a loose set of guidelines you set for yourself the very first time you decide to tell someone. Let's list them shall we?:

1) Don't Be a Freak:

Very important. Sure you may want to suck on their toes, but just springing this in the middle of foreplay probably isn't going to go over too well. The key here is to have a healthy respect for the revulsion most people have for feet. Acknowledge that your fetish, no matter how common, is a bit weird. Try acting very shy and nervous about revealing your foot needs to a partner, even if you are confident about the outcome. Having this embarrassment (manufactured or otherwise) is an excellent way to show your partner that you trust them enough to share something very personal with them, perhaps something you have never shared with anyone.

2) Don't Be Afraid:

Fear is a safe companion, but a terrible leader. If there is something you feel is going to make your relationship more mutually beneficial for you and your partner, go for it. If having your fetish needs fulfilled makes sex more passionate and enjoyable for you both, I'm sure an agreement could be reached. But beware of rule number three...

3) Remember Your Partner's Needs:

Always remember that as much as you're enjoying running your tongue up and down your partner's soles, it's possible that the only pleasure they're getting out of it is satisfying you. Now, while I have been serious with women who very much enjoyed the attention doted on their feet, these wonderful girls were the exception and not the rule. You have to remember to satisfy their needs as well, and take special care to make sure that not every trip into the bedroom is strictly a foot party. Relationships are tricky things, and the last thing you want is your lover thinking that all they are is just a pair of feet to you.

There are many more subtle intricacies that could be listed here, as well as a plethora of personal experiences, but I feel that these three simple rules should help you to take your relationship and intimacy to that next level. Preferably a lower one with toes.