How to Introduce a Second Cat Into the Family

Introducing a new cat into a household where there is already a well established cat is not an easy task. The first cat will probably feel very resentful and jealous and try all kinds of tactics to get rid of the new cat. The following tips are intended to help you decide if it is wise to get a second cat and if so, how to help the two cats get along amicably.

How to introduce a second cat into the family #1 Carefully consider whether you really want another cat

Before you even get a second cat, think carefully about it. Do you really want a new cat? Why is that? If you feel yourself getting "cat broody" every time you see another cat, this might not be a wise decision to make. It might be more of an emotional want, rather than a need. Think of the extra expense, vet's bills, vaccinations, and so on. But, if this does not bother you, then it might not be a bad idea to proceed with getting a second cat.

How to introduce a second cat into the family #2 Have a trial run

I would suggest that if you are seriously contemplating getting a second cat, that you have a trial run. Offer to cat sit for the family who have the cat of your choice and see how he gets along with your first cat. You may be pleasantly surprised. Or you may decide that you really do not need a second cat after all. It is a personal decision. That way, if it does not work out, or you change your mind, you can just hand the cat back and your first cat can resume his position as king of the house.

How to introduce a second cat into the family #3 Consider your first cat's feelings

Your first cat may have had you all to himself for years. He has become attached to you, he may bring you offerings of dead mice every once in a while and he purrs contentedly on your lap. When a second cat comes along, this could disturb your first cat's sense of security. Suddenly, he sees you spending time with another cat, instead of with him. You hold him in your lap and you scratch under his chin, just the way you do with your first cat. It is only natural for your first cat to feel jealous. He may feel pushed out and wonder how you he will ever be able to spend any time with you anymore. If you have older siblings, they may have felt the same way about you when you were born. I know one of my brothers did. When I was brought home from the hospital, my brother told our parents to take me back to where I had come from! That is how your first cat will feel! His territory has been invaded and a strange new cat now sits where he likes to sit. So think about that. Rather than chastise your first cat for hissing and growling at the second cat, reassure him and speak kindly to him. If you tell him off, he will feel even more pushed out, as if he has done something wrong.

How to introduce a second cat into the family #4 Gradually introduce each cat to one another

Do not expect miracles! The two cats are unlikely to become best friends when they first meet. They are more likely to want to tear strips out of each other and chase each other around the house. So rather than traumatize the new cat, try to keep the two separate at first. Introduce them, but from a distance and then let them have their own space. When they are in the same room as each other, watch to see how they interact and reward them when it seems that they are trying to get along. Do not raise your voice if they are still hostile to one another. Just take it slowly. It will take some time.

How to introduce a second cat into the family #5 Keep the litter tray, food, and water trays separate

Cats are very territorial animals. They will not like it if you try to force them to share their litter tray, the food and water. So keep them separate, preferably in separate rooms. This will help the cats to establish their own territory and stop them from antagonizing one another. The last thing you want is for your first cat to be so scared of entering the room to eat, that he stays away and starves.