How to Keep Your Man Coming Back to You

Ladies do you want to keep your man? Well, here is how: If you meet your man's basic needs then he will never stray far from home.

First off, put that headache on the back burner and make love when he is turned on and wants to. Could you imagine if you were turned on all the time and you got turned down because he had a headache? That would make you feel unwanted and leave you wanting more. If you don't want your man to stray then you need to make sure he has no need to. Not that turning your man down once in a while because you don't feel good is a good cause for cheating but if it is only a simple headache (let's face it, it usually is) take a Tylenol if necessary and keep him happy and satisfied in bed.

If your man works hard offer to massage him before bed; it will help him to relax after a hard days work, make him feel more appreciated and most importantly you will be touching him. Make it enjoyable for the both of you. Get to know his body really well. Pay attention, if a certain spot seems to bring him more pleasure than others, then remember that and use it later.

Surprise him, if you have time get yourself dressed up in a cute get-up, whatever he fancies the most and surprise him the second he walks in that door. Men love to be surprised with sex, probably the best gift you could give to him. If you don't have lingerie go out and get some. Find out his fantasies, his favorite colors and his pick between stilettos or high boots and go get some. It is fun for you too, a great way to turn you on as well is to know that you will be making his fantasies come alive.

Something very important to remember is confidence. Remember to have it, he would not have started dating you or married you had he not liked something about you. If he compliments you on anything say "thank you" don't ever shake your head in disagreement with a man's compliment. This will result in a lack of compliments in the future and that will result in your feeling down and unwanted even more. Nothing is more of a turn off for most men than a lack of confidence in yourself and body. Don't confuse confidence with conceit though.

Be fun to be around. Laugh with him. Pick out a funny movie you know he either likes or will like and enjoy a good time with him. Go to a comedy club if you know someone really funny is going to be there. Tell him the funny things that happened to you. Laugh at his jokes. Shared laughter is one of the best ways to enjoy each others company.

Lastly show a hint of jealousy let him know you want him for you only but don't pull a Glenn Close on him. If he thinks you are unstable in your love and lust then maybe you just are and you need to stop and reevaluate the situation. Too much jealousy will turn him off right away. That will result in him telling you things about him less and less which in turn brings out even more jealousy. Remember he is with you for a reason don't give him a reason to not want to be.