How to Keep a Woman Happy in Your Relationship

Most men say that they feel completely clueless as far as their woman is concerned. When a woman breaks up with a man it usually is not because she felt like being a bachelorette but more likely because her simple needs were not met; so she has either found someone who will give them to her or decided she just can't waste her time on someone who does not care about her anymore. The bummer of this is many times women leave the men that really do care they are just unsure how to show it or what to do and what not to do. Women are not as hard to figure out as everyone would believe. It's not that we are simple, no far from it but we are easy to read if you follow these simple steps .

First things first don't ever ask a woman "what's wrong". You should know already what is bothering her and the fact that you don't and ask her to tell you really makes things so much worse. If you really don't know what it was that set her mood off then instead of saying "what's wrong", say "what can I do to make things better" The question alone will change her mood back. I know, I know it's a little high maintenance sounding but think of the long road ahead if she continues to feel put off over whatever it is that made her moody in the first place. This way you both win.

One of women's biggest pet peeves is forgetting anything important. Anniversary's, birthdays, appointments, what have you, get yourself a calendar specifically for keeping track of all dates that are important to your wife/ girlfriend. If you don't know just ask, women love to tell you ahead of time what day means what and why it is important. It's after they tell you and you forget the day that they get angry, because once it's come and gone they can't get that day back and that is unacceptable to almost all women

Don't be late, never ever be late for an important event or date. This will cause another round of arguing or sulking depending on which type of woman you have. You don't want either to happen. Showing up late makes it look as if you don't care, as if she is completely unimportant to you and then the thoughts roll into her head. Yes, you know what I'm talking about, you have seen the look she gets in her eyes when she starts to wonder what the hell is so much more important than her. "It's that woman that's been flirting with you isn't it"? No, well if you don't want her thinking that or other things along those lines then just don't show up late ever. If you are going to be late then call ahead just make sure that the excuse is a valid one. Don't ever make her late for anything either; in her mind all that she is thinking is that, that makes her look bad and that's a big no no.

Women all women like to be made to feel pretty and wanted so do tell her out of the blue just how much you care and want her and get mushy just once in a while with it. When you are sitting with her on the couch watching a show together just vegging with one another, or standing in a line somewhere, a place you usually don't sprout gooey love sonnets just tell her how important she is butter her up a little and that will earn some serious brownie points. Another thing you can do is let her know just how sexy she looks in that one dress you like of hers, women love to know what their men like to see them in; though you should never tell a woman flat out that something makes her look bad, instead just tell her what makes her look her best.

What is important to her should be important to you; what she likes you like. Simple and sweet if she likes the beach, you do to, if she likes going to the movies so do you. If she is a volunteer blood donor then give up the blood once in a while. I'm not saying always give in and do things you don't want to do or sacrifice time that you feel would be better off being used somewhere else but once in a while it makes a women feel good to know that you are willing to make them happy doing something you normally would not care to do.

Don't lie, that is the number one thing you should never do. If you get caught in a lie then it will never be lived down, the trust will be broken. It takes an awfully long time to rebuild trust so unless you were planning a break up or divorce then just be honest with her. If you were late because you were having fun playing on the play station with the guys than just tell he so. Don't tell her you got stuck behind a horribly bad accident and then let her find out later from a friends girlfriend what you were really doing. No matter how small the lie is there is no taking it back once it is put out there.

Most women really want the same thing in a man and that is for him to just simply show he cares, they just need to be reminded once in a while that they are important t to him. That's really all there is to it.