How to Keep Yourself Happy

Everyone wants to be happy, it has been determined that everyone is already happy and just don't know it. There are circumstances in our lives that won't allow us to be happy, like our everyday lives and stress, that is why you see everyone walking around with an frown or a unhappy face. Here are some ways to help keep yourself happy.

1.) First thing you have to surround yourself with things that make you happy, and people that make you happy.

2.) You must not let things get you down even tho one of your friends my not be feeling well, we tend to allow everything around us to affect how we feel.

3.) We need to let the true person come from within, and that well be a happier person, it's OK to feel for our friends, or love ones but, we can't allow everything that happens to them keep us unhappy, sure you feel sad because your love one is sick or hurt. And we really do care what happens to that person, we tends to feel bad but, you can still care and be happy at the same time when caring for that person, but if you want to be truly happy, you have to let go of some of life's problems, not selfish, this is just so you don't spend the rest of your life worrying and being unhappy about something that happen to your friend,and no one could possibly have had any control over that. And this is not because you don't care about them it's just tuning into the things that make you happy, you can still care about your friends and family but, if you spend your whole life worrying and unhappy about something they done or said, you will forever be unhappy.

4.) You should know what kind of people make you happy, you have a life to live as well. Yes, think about what happen to them you wouldn't be human if you didn't but don't spend each and every day worrying and upset, and unhappy about something that don't really effect you. I know if a love one is sick or hurt we don't feel good either but , you do all you can and remember to make yourself happy to,and, don't forget about yourself.

5.) Try to be positive in just about everything you do, if you've always hanging out with that depressed and unhappy person that will make you feel the same way.

6.) If possible try to surround yourself with people that either love you or care about you, instead of those who just want something from you to satisfy themselves.

7.) Beware of those people who just want to gossip, they don't really care about you, they just want to know your business so that they will have something to gossip about with other people they know.

Just be true to yourself first, because you're already happy it's just a matter of bringing it out, and if you're around negative people they will always make you feel bad about yourself. A true friend is always there for you, for your birthdays, holidays, wedding, when you have children etc. You are also there for them but, just remember you have a life to live as well, and you must make yourself happy to. Some of us wish it was them instead of your friend to love one but, we cannot control everything that happens in life, it's just impossible, this doesn't mean in anyway you care less. If you can make yourself happy first, you'll have no problem making others happy. Even things in our own life always make us feel unhappy but we can't allow this to get the best of us, because we still have a life to live and we must keep pushing on. If we allow everything that happens in life to keep us down we will be miserable the rest of our lives and, waiting for someone else to make us happy, which is not a good idea, because others can only make us happy for a while but, if we want to always be truly happy we must reach inside of our soul and let out the happiness that's hiding inside. We allow other people problems to keep our own happiness from coming out.. When we can release the happiness within.