How to Kiss a Guy in Ways He'll Like: Five Secret Tips

It seems the general consensus is that girls like to kiss, and guys kiss to get more. The problem with this is that it's just not true. There are many guys out there who like to make-out just as much if not more than most girls do. There also seems to be this misguided notion that girls are generally better kissers than guys and that's probably why they like the whole thing more. Added to all this is the myth that girls like intimate things, like cuddling and kissing, but guys only like the end result, and you the makings for true misunderstanding between the sexes. The simple fact of the matter is, girls don't have some inherent gene that makes them better kissers and in fact some are pretty lousy at it. And it's those lousy kissers that have caused their guys not to want to kiss them, not their own desires. These five secret tips on how to kiss a guy in ways he'll like is for every girl or woman out there who would like to do a better job kissing their man.

1 - Take it easy. Yes, movies and television have taught us all that kissing is about mashing together with open mouths and probing tongues. But kissing can and should be more than that. If you want your guy to like how you kiss him, try a little subtlety, a little softness. Move slowly and allow time for passion to build before jumping into the messier stuff. And once you get there, pay attention. If he backs away, you might be pressing too hard, or he can't breathe. Or maybe he'd like to lead for a bit. Kissing is a two-way street, or a dance even. It's about give and take, but also about sharing and responding, not just plowing ahead with whatever you have always been doing.

2 - Don't assume. There are many things woman worry about when kissing, and sometimes those things are justified. Other times they are not. Either way, don't assume anything. Like don't assume your breath is minty fresh just because you brushed your teeth an hour ago. You might have halitosis and not know it. Or perhaps a medication you're taking is having an effect on your breath. Also, don't assume that just because you're a girl and he's a guy that he should like whatever way you hold him back when kissing, or the way you move, or what you do with your mouth and lips. He might not. Don't assume he likes the things you like. Don't assume you know what he's after when he kisses you. The list goes on and on. Just don't assume things.

3 - Ask him. Yes, I know, how ridiculous. But it's not. But here's the thing. Just like all girls are not alike, neither are all guys alike. So, if you want to kiss your guy in ways he'll like, ask him what those ways are. Of course you don't ask him in the throes of passion. Ask him when you're just sitting and talking. But don't put him on the spot. Just ask him subtle things, like what sorts of things does he like when kissing. Not things like, "do you like how I kiss you?" because you'll never know if he's telling the truth. He can't just say no, now can he? Think about it.

4 - Be kissable. One thing a lot of woman forget is that men have memories. If you use your mouth for tossing ugly words at him occasionally, he's not going to forget that. Or if you bite your toenails or eat something he finds disgusting. All these things have an effect. Even if your just kissing someone in a bar, or after a first or second date. How you use your mouth beforehand will have a very big impact on how much he wants or enjoys you kissing him.

5 - Be realistic. Think about kissing some other guys. Just random guys you see on the street or at work. Would you like or appreciate making out with every single one of them? My guess is no. And despite what you might think, guys are like that too. And, god forbid, one of those people a certain guy might not enjoy kissing, could be you. Try to remember it's not always about chemistry or how good someone looks, or even how they act. Sometimes it just is, and if someone feels that way about you, recognize that fact and accept it. Because no matter what you do or say, he's just not really going to enjoy you kissing him. Even if it might lead to other things he may want. So, in short, if he's not able to enjoy your kiss, don't kiss him. Simple.

These five secret tips on how to kiss a guy in ways he'll like is for women everywhere, whether you are kissing guys in ways they like now or not. There is always room for improvement. I hope these tips have caused you to think and to perhaps improve your own kissing skills. Good luck.