How to Kiss? Tips to Be a Expert Kisser

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Kissing is one of the most interesting subjects one can write about and read about in this world. But the feeling of reading or getting to know about it is not even worth half the pleasure of the actual act. There have been a good many amount of literature, prose and poetry written on one of the world's most favorite topics

Kissing is one of life's most innocent guilty pleasures. The universal show of displaying feelings and romantic affection can be shown at any time and any place.

How to kiss?

How to kiss? This is the question which needs a experienced answer. Kissing well does require skill. It is an art and that art can be perfected only through knowledge and practice. Well, it is not tough as algorithm. But it is good to know the art of sensuality which is all about kissing well. When you kiss her, make sure that you use your hands well. Move them around her body. Apply the right kind of pressure and touch.

Can you imagine what a profound impact it leaves on your beloved after a stimulating kiss session? You will know by the smile in which she answers your phone call, hugs you and beckons you for an encore. To kiss confidently, be confident. To be confident, you have to relax. It is best not to think about anything. Do not pay attention to the result. Enjoy the process.

Well taking you back a little before learning how to kiss? Let's know a little about the history where it originated? Where it was first existent?

Kissing, the most intimate expression of love finds its roots in early history. India, the true land of sensuality and erotica was the first country where kissing has been found to be existent. If you look at the ancient forms and carvings of statues of gods in all the amorous positions in temples of Khajurao in India, you will know where lip-locking found its origins in. Sanskrit texts from India dated back to 1500BC, has enough materials to prove the subsistence of kissing in their stories.

The term 'French Kiss' came into existence when the Americans and British popularized this special and erotic type of kissing to the world. It was so that during the World War I, the French who would talk about their voracious sexual appetites and love making skills gave them a tip or two about what they called their special type of kissing. Soon after the war, the sexually frustrated English and American men displayed the same kind of kissing skills on their partners and called it the 'French Kiss'. The term was actually coined in 1923 and it was associated with slander or slang of a sexual nature on the French culture.

How to kiss tips and suggestions:

A kiss is an experience which is to be shared privately. It is dreamy, it is sensuous and it is probably something which can be the most beautiful thing in your romance. So here are some tips which will shape to create the most wonderful and memorable kiss for your beloved.


  • You should have a good breath. You are sure to blow away this romantic moment if you kiss her mouth which reeks of onion, garlic and pungent spices. Pop in a breath-freshener which has a mint or lemon fragrance.

  • You should create the right setting: Women hate bad timing. When the conversation between you to stop for a minute. You will know it when her eyes meet yours and there are no words to say. That is the perfect moment to kiss her.

  • Don't ask .Women like their men to be in control. An assertive confident man would let his action speak for himself. If you seek her permission, it comes across as submissive not sensitive. So be a man and kiss her.

  • You should not be too quick or frivolous. Kissing a woman has a slow and sensuous pace to it. If you seem too casual and quick, she will sense that you are just desperate and anxious.

  • You should keep your eyes closed. Make sure that your eyes are closed when you kiss her. When you close your eyes, you can really savor the feeling of kiss without being distracted.

  • You should not make her breathless. She may take your breath away. But that is no excuse to lash your tongue out in the first kiss especially and choke her. Use your tongue to gentle tease her and make her wanting for more than leaving her breathless.

  • You should keep it private. You can declare your love publicly. But keep your kiss a private affair. It is a moment which is solemnly for you and her.

Types of Kissing:

There are many spicy methods of Kissing, One you are over with your beginner's level you need to explore different types. Some of them are:

Butterfly kiss, droplet kiss, French kiss, snake kiss, and vacuum kiss. Once you advance in these different techniques .You can easily satisfy your partner.

Details on Popular Styles of Kissing.

French Kissing: This is the most popular type of kiss. This involves touching your tongue with your partner's and it can be quite a pleasant experience. There are a few tips to create a great French kiss.

Open Lips - Open your lips over your partner's slightly more than you would during a regular kiss. This makes it easier to place your tongue in your partner's mouth

Tongue - Place the tip of your tongue on the tip of your partner's tongue. Do not force your tongue too far into their mouth. If you wish, you can play with their tongue by circling theirs with your own. Have fun with it. Explore.

Lips - You may explore different ways of using your tongue. Try running the tip of your tongue over your partner's lips. Do this slowly and gently, just using the tip of your tongue.

Suck Kissing: This can be a very seductive type of kiss. Instead of French Kissing with your mouth open, while your partner's lips are parted suck on their top our bottom lip with your own, just for a second or two. Then go back to another type of kiss or try the other lip.

Nip Kissing: This type of kiss has to be done carefully, but when done correctly can create a wonderful effect on your date. While suck kissing, gently bite their lip, but be VERY gentle so as not to hurt your date / partner. This kiss should only be done with someone that you've kissed a few times before; otherwise you may shock your partner.

Surprise Kissing: This type of kiss is done when your partner is lying down on a sofa or the ground, either asleep or just lying with their eyes closed. Quietly approach your partner and place a small, very gentle kiss on their lips. Intensify the kiss until your partner opens their eyes or awakens.

Women give a lot of importance to love-bites. Some of the best places to kiss your woman apart from just her lips and genitalia are behind her ear, Tip of her nose, Back of her neck, Underside of her forearm, Curve of her waist, Palm of her hand, inside her wrist.

Products recommended learning how to kiss?

There are many products and e-books that teach you how to kiss but in parts .You should choose the one which is authentic and covers nearly all the sections with highlights in and around kissing

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  • An average person has likelihood to spend an estimated 20,160 minutes kissing in their lifetime.
  • The ancient Egyptians never kissed with their mouths. They used their noses for kisses
  • If your wife is plump, kiss her. You can burn around 26 calories in a one minute steamy kiss.
It is indicated that men who kiss their wives goodbye before leaving to work have a better income and have a chance of living 5 years longer than those who don't., live a more pleasing life than those who don't.

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  • $.W01F9/23/2010

    MMMM YE I THINK THATS NICE INFO BUT THERE ARE MORE WAYS OF KISSING AND YOU SHOULD EXPLAIN THEM ....

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