How Do You Know If She Loves You?

It isn't always easy to know if someone loves you. Love is a word that is thrown around like dirty laundry but that doesn't mean that love actually exists. There are many approaches to finding out if someone loves you but some are superior to others. People are not always straight-forward or honest in their approaches and this leaves a large amount of room for doubt.

Approaches to Finding Out if She Loves You:

1.) Ask Her: You might simply ask her if she still loves you. The problem with this approach is that she may feel pressure to simply say "yes" without really meaning it. This can create problems if you feel that she isn't being honest with you. More doubt will rise and more questions will remain unanswered. You might drive yourself silly trying to deal with her disinterest.

The good news is that if she is not interested in you she might tell you at that point. Instead of hiding her disdain and insecurity about being single she might find it the opportune time to tell you she is losing interest. The good news is that you will have a definite answer and can move on in your life.

2.) Where She Spends Her Time: She may tell you that she loves you but does everything exactly the opposite than what your definition of love is. For example, she doesn't return your calls promptly, doesn't want to see you as often or goes out with her friends a lot. If you can't ever seem to find her or get a straight answer there is a good chance she has lost interest.

Going out dancing or to the bar with her friends every night of the weekend is a big tip off. If you aren't invited it is a tell tale sign that she is out looking for someone else. When people are in the market to meet someone they hang out in places where they are most likely to meet someone.

3.) You See and Hear from Her Often: If she loves you she will be thinking about you. If she thinks about you she will want to come see you and talk to you on the phone. If you don't hear from her days on end there is a good possibility that she isn't interested in you. After all she does have other things on her mind.

When people are in love they naturally long for each other. The pain of separation forces them to make efforts to be with each other. Love is kind of like an addiction where being away from the person actually creates a low level amount of pain. Love is the same as longing.